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Re: Virgin women afraid of sex

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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • December 1, 2007
  • 10:21 AM

I am a 27 year old virgin, and I feel like a freak, not a woman. I was in a 6 year relationship which recently ended mlostly because of my problem with sex. My boyfriend was the most understanding, loved me and said he would until I'm ready. The truth is I was sexually abused when i was a child by my step father, I have done yeas of counselling, even tried hypnotherapy, and couple therapy with my boyfriend (ex), nothing worked. Well i did improve over the years feeling comfortable being naked ad doing sexual things, but whenever we tried intercourse, my body andmind would freeze straight away and i'd back out. I had a real hope that after a couple of years with my boyfriend, I would eventually have sex, but it never happened. Although he said he understood my problem and would wait all his life, it broke us up after 6 years. It was more my descision, as Icouldn't hlp but feel abnormal and the reason for all our arguments, even if i tried not to, i felt pressured, by the relatonship by the society, by everything around me! Now, my ex wants me back, but i can't go back into a relationship without having solved this problem i have. Yo see, i have never even managed to insert a tampon inside, it' like a totally deny my vagina. I fee like my life is completely on standby. I'm scared of everything, I want t feel confident, but I know i'm not a womanyet... What is my problem? I cant stand this anymore!

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