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issue with sex, need help

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  • Posted By: My quivers full
  • October 17, 2006
  • 04:10 AM

I have an issue which continues to cause my wife and I to have some major fights. I need your opinions and any help you may suggest.

I do not have a problem having sex with my wife, so no drugs needed for E.D. The issue is that my wife wants to have sex far more than I do. I am happy with maybe 1 or 2 times per week. She wants it a minimal of 3 times per week. Although I could gather up enough for one more go around, sex is not the focus of my life right now. I am out of work and am looking for a good job. I can't keep up a pace which I feel is not normal. A few weeks maybe but it is simply not in my desire for so much sex. She feels like I don't care for her, which I have said is not even close to the truth. She has told me that she has seen a doctor and that her hormonal levels are normal. I guess this must mean I'm the problem. I havn't been to a doctor to see if it's my hormones. Is sex a couple of times per week lower than normal? Do I need to be concerned? My wife doesn't have a problem with pornograghy, but is this some form of sex addiction?

I am trying to work out a solution that can satisfy the both of us and make us both feel fulfilled, but i feel like I'm the one expected to be something I'm not. any help would be appreciated.

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