i had my first time ever last monday. it was unprotected and i feel so stupid. my girlfriend has only been with one other person, but she was tested for HIV about a month ago and it came back negative. the night after, i started getting sick. i had a really sore throat the next day and wednesday night, i had a fever of 103. i had an extremely sore throat, my glands were very swollen and my tonsils also, headache, a little bit of muscle pain, and a little of of loss of breath when i would breath in deeply. i have had a history of huge tonsils. they are huge, and now that im sick, they are almost touching, making it difficult to swallow. i thought for sure it was strep throat. but i got tested and it came back negative. my fever lasted until friday. i felt totally fine friday night, saturday, sunday and monday. then yesterday (tuesday night) i started getting sick again. my throat started to hurt. i went to the doctors. they said i could have strep throat or mono. they dont know about my unprotected encounter, and im very scared to tell anyone. now its wednesday, and i feel almost the same as last week, sore throat, minor headache, and just achey all over. im very scared i have HIV. Should i be worrying? can symptoms of hiv show up this early? or do you think its just mono or strep throat in my glands? my sister had this last year. can a throat culture tell if you have strep in your glands?
i really need some help. i am so worried about all of this. i told my girlfriend but she is telling me over and over again that she doesnt have hiv and i shouldnt worry. as much as i dont want to worry, i do. please, anyone, give me some advice or tell me whats going on with me. i would greatly greatly greatly appreciate it. i can barley sleep some nights because im so worried.
thank you so much.