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Low Sex Drive

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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • January 3, 2008
  • 04:52 PM

My boyfriend (of 6 months) and I have a great relationship. I feel like we are the perfect couple, always together, constant affection, pure bliss, except for our sex life, or lack thereof. In the beginning it was constant, now I’m lucky to get it twice a week. Now I could understand this if the relationship was older or ***l, we were older. We’re both in our early twenties. So for me, sex everyday is a bit more reasonable. Its not like we don’t have the time or the place.

We have talked about it and he claims that I make it “too easy”. That before I got my own place (we don’t live together) it was harder to get it, so he wanted it more. But now there are also headache excuses, it’s too cold, I’m to tired, anything and everything he can think of. I thought maybe it was me, but he claims that I’m the best he’s ever had and the only one he wants. That marriage is his top priority with me. I’m very sexually open, to anything actually, so I don’t think boredom is the issue either. Plus, I’m always the one to do the work. He never has to and never chooses to.

Brief history on him, he use to be into drugs (heavy ones not just pot) as well as steroids. He has since stopped those, but any opinions on those being a factor of his low sex drive?

I’ve tried denying him sex, but I fail at it. I have a very high sex drive and feel dumb for telling him no when he wants it when I want it to. I don’t know what else to do.

If it’s me, if it’s him…or god forbid if it’s someone else…..

Any suggestions?

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