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I can't come during sex but I can when I masturbate?

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  • Posted By: cannondale
  • February 28, 2010
  • 08:41 PM

Hi and thanks for taking the time to read my query,

Ive been seeing my new girlfriend for about 6 weeks now, we are both 31 and perfectly healthy, we had our 1st sexual experience together 2 weeks ago and everything was fantastic!!!

We had sex again this morning and it was heavenly, we both really enjoyed it, she came twice but I didnt come at all no matter how hard I tried :(

We communicate really well with each other before/during/after sex so we can give each other as much pleasure as possible but this problem is beginning to get on my nerves.

No matter how much effort I put in I can't come during sex with her.

The 1st weekend we spent together I wasnt overly concerned because in the past during previous sexual encounters with other women Ive not 'produced the goods' every single time, I have ejaculated maybe 80% - 90% of the time.

We have tried several positions but nothing seems to work for me although I want too sooooooooo much because I find her extremely attractive :(

Strange fact: While on my own I can only come when I lock my legs straight and masturbate at a ferious pace.

After the sexy time I demonstrated it to her just to prove I could come and she was glad to know I can produce :)

Do I have a prostate problem?

Is it just a faze?

Any help would be much appreciated :)

Thanks

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