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Errection problems - not ED though

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  • Posted By: zaphod3000
  • October 13, 2010
  • 09:20 PM

Ok, i am 17 i am in good health i go to the gym regularly and run and do martial arts regularly aswell i have no problems getting an errection normally.

And atm i am with an absolutely amazing girlfriend atm that i really care about, and last week we had sex for the 1st time (i was a virgin untill then)
and the 1st time was awkward, i couldnt get the condoms on properly, they were kinda too small and the more i tried to put them on the softer my penis got, it was never soft but it went to a semi
I then had to work it back up hard again and at which point i couldnt really penetrate her because she was quite tight, and in the effort of trying to get my penis to enter her it would go to a semi again
This really threw me, and i eventually got it in and during sex it was all fine and hard and everything (ofc cause it was my 1st time i lasted inly a few mins :P )

But i swore to myself it wouldnt happen next time
Today we tried it again, no condoms, she was on the pill but i just couldnt get myself completely hard, and the same when it came to penetration she was tight and i just couldnt enter her before my errection went down.
This time i just couldnt get it in at all :/
Even through fore play and stuff and when i masterbate im hard but just not when it comes down the the unltimate act :/

And she is a great girlfriend and she understands, but she thinks its her fault for not being sexy enough, even tho it really isnt

Im pretty sure its all psychological but does anyone have any tips to what i can do?

Thanx for any help

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