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Impotence, loss of libido

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  • Posted By: kvpran
  • February 16, 2008
  • 11:46 AM

Hi,
i am 29years old Male and have been smoking only since the past 4years. I smoke around 10cig/day and with coffee too.
Until few years ago i had a very strong libido, would often skip classes or get up at night to masturbate.
Since an year i noticed reduced libido and now it's totally nil.
Now masturbation is only mechanical, no ****o or sexual thoughts give me a excitement.
Worst, i get hard-on but it's soft and i feel no sensation on the penis, and when i ejaculate, the semen only oozes out but doesn't shoot anymore. Even for a hard-on, i have to work a lot and it doesn't feel good either when it's erect. Earlier, when it's erect i would feel the 'throbbing beat' inside the penis, now i don't.
And i have NO orgasms anymore.
I went to a urologist, he tested my blood serum and said my testosterone levels were okay. He said i was too young to have any heart problems.
I go to gym everyday and i eat plenty of fruit and avoid fried stuff.
I believe smoking is the culprit and i am on the road to quit. I don't drink and i hardly take any medications.

I want to know the 'fastest' way to reverse the loss of libido.
Is it possible to undo the nerve damage on the penis and anywhere else? I don't want to use drugs like viagra, they only cure the symptom of ED. I want to gain sexual desires, libido and healthy nervous system.

Any helpful advice will be great. Thanks.

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  • The first thing to remember and the most important piece of advice I have for you is that the vast majority of problems like yours (ED) is psychological. Trust me I've been there, your penis and your mind are very intricate things and the network system is pretty complicated. You might find you penis is many shapes and sizes throughout this experience. I swear to god, mine did some weird stuff too. But the truth is it's all in your head and you're making it worse every day by freaking out about what to do. The interesting thing is that the power is yours. All you have to do is do something about it. Think about some bad sexual experiences you may have had and get over them. Relax. Huge brain trick is to be able to get your mind completely (and I mean completely) off the subject matter at hand and keep reapproaching the topic with optimism. You can see a doctor if you need to know it's not something else. (I did, after alot of crap, it was still me making up diagnoses). Just relax. The right girl could help you, ironically you can't get her so easily in your condition ha. but hey,.. bottom line, these days ED isn't as much of a problem as it is stupidy. Sorry, no offence, a comedian said it not me. But I tend to agree. A doctor anyday in your condition will hook you up with viagra or cialis (I liked better) and after a couple times your back on your feet. It's your head, cialis is an instant cure though so you've got no worries I'm afraid. oh,.. and quit smoking, eat better, and sleep. pfft.
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  • I suggest that you supplement zinc, and try damiana. Fruit is good, but not in excessive quantities (triglycerides). A healthy diet consists of: 5 serves of vegetables, daily, including a leafy green one, such as broccoli, spinach, cabbage, kale, or silverbeet (swiss chard), and a yellow/orange one, like yams, (sweet potato) carrots, or pumpkin/squash. One of the other serves should be legumes, such as beans, peas, or lentils. A serve is 2 heaped tablespoonsful, or half a cup (125 ml). Also, at least 2, to a maximum of 5 serves of fruit: one should be orange, or grapefruit, for the NATURAL vitamin C, and bananas are high in potassium. In addition, your body needs at least 2 teaspoonsful of oil. Olive oil, coconut oil, grapeseed oil, or macadamia oil, are the healthiest, but you can get some in the form of Omega 3 fish oil (certified free of mercury); it is best if consumed with an antioxidant, such as an orange, or grapefruit, or their FRESHLY SQUEEZED juice. If vitamin E is added, it should be certified as being 100% from natural sources, or it may be synthetic: avoid it.. Also a serve of protein: meat, fish, poultry, or eggs. For calcium, some yog(h)urt, and/or cheese and/or milk, or tinned sardines, with bones. To the above, add a certain amount of wholegrain products, such as seed and nutloaf, or sourdough rye bread, according to your body's energy needs. Minimise coffee use, and replace sugar with xylitol, or stevia, from health food stores, or, less preferably, fruit sugar (Fruisana, etc.) from supermarket sugar & health food aisles. I feel much better, now that I have quit smoking: use nicotine patches, or gum, and have substitutes for the oral stimulation, and the ritual, and a plan for social situations, meals, etc. Most people take 3 tries, so don't give up!
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  • Hi,i am 29years old Male and have been smoking only since the past 4years. I smoke around 10cig/day and with coffee too.Until few years ago i had a very strong libido, would often skip classes or get up at night to masturbate.Since an year i noticed reduced libido and now it's totally nil.Now masturbation is only mechanical, no ****o or sexual thoughts give me a excitement. Worst, i get hard-on but it's soft and i feel no sensation on the penis, and when i ejaculate, the semen only oozes out but doesn't shoot anymore. Even for a hard-on, i have to work a lot and it doesn't feel good either when it's erect. Earlier, when it's erect i would feel the 'throbbing beat' inside the penis, now i don't.And i have NO orgasms anymore.I went to a urologist, he tested my blood serum and said my testosterone levels were okay. He said i was too young to have any heart problems.I go to gym everyday and i eat plenty of fruit and avoid fried stuff.I believe smoking is the culprit and i am on the road to quit. I don't drink and i hardly take any medications.I want to know the 'fastest' way to reverse the loss of libido.Is it possible to undo the nerve damage on the penis and anywhere else? I don't want to use drugs like viagra, they only cure the symptom of ED. I want to gain sexual desires, libido and healthy nervous system.Any helpful advice will be great. Thanks.Hello man.Totally feel you cos is just like u express my self above.I'm 29 that time and seems that i dont have any hardware problem.Urologist told me i'm fine. Blood tests showed the same. Testo is ok.No drugs whatsoever.I had quit smoking 5 months ago.Recently i started to smoke a little as of a short term relationship broke.Main cause of this was my degraded libido and total loss of self-confidence for sex endurance.All these years i was concerning on everything else (career university etc) except to built sexual life. I was relying almost in ****o and masturbation.Too shame.Everything u leave it leaves you also. Not enough wisdom though when was younger...Anyway. Here now i'm trying to forget all of these and see what can i doEverybody says its on your mind.But how can you erase all these bad memories and go further?Whats now???Trying to built my confidence in order to be happier and to have my life.Also i will try the *********e cure cos i dont see any other way to regain what i've lost.Alot of girls want u ready and fixed. I dont want to admit that i'm not ready but the facts are keeping and telling me thisI know if i become more spontaneous in sex after that i will be able to move over the girls and have sex with more power. I dont give up man.Whats your status right now??Hope the best for all of us
    yokoloko 2 Replies
    • November 5, 2009
    • 08:15 PM
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  • Hello man.Totally feel you cos is just like u express my self above.I'm 29 that time and seems that i dont have any hardware problem.Urologist told me i'm fine. Blood tests showed the same. Testo is ok.No drugs whatsoever.I had quit smoking 5 months ago.Recently i started to smoke a little as of a short term relationship broke.Main cause of this was my degraded libido and total loss of self-confidence for sex endurance.All these years i was concerning on everything else (career university etc) except to built sexual life. I was relying almost in ****o and masturbation.Too shame.Everything u leave it leaves you also. Not enough wisdom though when was younger...Anyway. Here now i'm trying to forget all of these and see what can i doEverybody says its on your mind.But how can you erase all these bad memories and go further?Whats now???Trying to built my confidence in order to be happier and to have my life.Also i will try the *********e cure cos i dont see any other way to regain what i've lost.Alot of girls want u ready and fixed. I dont want to admit that i'm not ready but the facts are keeping and telling me thisI know if i become more spontaneous in sex after that i will be able to move over the girls and have sex with more power. I dont give up man.Whats your status right now??Hope the best for all of us
    yokoloko 2 Replies
    • November 5, 2009
    • 08:19 PM
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  • Soooo I'm a 24yr old female who has been smoking for 12yrs and I am 4 days without cigarettes... YAY! I have to tell you that I think you're totally right about cigarettes being the culprit. I can't sit still I masturbated 6 times in one night and still wasn't satisfied! and this is only four days in!! My sex drive is now higher than it's ever been. Definitley try to quit smoking I think you'll see a HUGE difference.. as I most certainly have!!!
    Anonymous 42,789 Replies
    • January 6, 2011
    • 08:20 AM
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  • Guys! Alcohol or tobacco usage, may lead to impotence. Buy levitra 20mg and rescue yourself from ED right away! http://www.levitrabliss.com/levitra_20mg.html
    kashish 1 Replies Flag this Response
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