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What type of STD did I get, did I get HIV or what ?

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  • Posted By: goloka
  • September 25, 2007
  • 11:50 PM

Hi guys, I am very concern, because of my symptoms, that I may have HIV.
My recent exposure was went to the massage parlor and had a hand job and a massage with a massage oil. Then next day, I had felt the urge of urination and went to a doc and got cipro for it, that solved the problem. In addition, I had a gastro problem, 3 days from exposure, I had diarrhea and nausea. 2 weeks exactly, I got very sick, I had chills and fever, fatigue, pain in the back, sharp pain in the lymph node in the neck, armpit, and groin area. Than few weeks later I had small little red rash on my chest and back, lower back.

I still feel the lumps in my neck, when I press on my teeth and sometimes I get this weird lump type of feeling in the neck. I also get sharp dual pain on the groin and armpit area.

Did I just go through the ARS ?

My concern is that, I get these rash on my penis when I stroke it or if I am having sex, so I am concern that the massage parlor girl may of have had cuts and it may of have went into my broken skin perhaps ?

I still feel sick and its been 5 weeks since exposure, I have small red bumps, every where, sharp pain in the liver area, rib area, fatigue, sharp pitch type of pain.

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3 Years ago, i had protected sex and unprotected oral with sex workers, and had so many symptoms, and was tested for HIV at 1,2,3,5 months all neg, at 12 months it was + and WB was absence...But still had all symptoms, until now, and my hand job exposure brought them all back.

Did I contract HIV ? Please help ?

Q: From any of these act, did I contract HIV ?

Q: What are chance of me contracting HIV from hand job ?

Q: What does Absence on WB meant, 3 years ago ?

Q: Did I get any STD from the Hand Job ?

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3 years ago, I had sexual encounter with a escort, protected sex, and unprotected received oral sex. I felt sick , and continued to feel sick, for ever...

3 years ago, from that day, I had a test for all std at 3,5 months including HIV and they were neg. Had HIV 1 at 12 months Elisa was + but WB was Absence All strip.,HIV 2 neg at 12 months.

Ever since than I still felt sick until recently, where I had control of my body and I was feeling good until I had a hand job exposure.

As of right now, I have sever symptoms, sharp pain in the neck, armpit, groin, pelivc pain, fatigue, rash , pain around liver area, nausea, all ways feeling I am dizzy, headaches, leg pain, buttock pain, neck pain, feel I have a lump in neck.

My doc says he has no idea what is causing this...

In other words, I had all this 3 years ago from that sexual encounter, and I felt better and than I had the hand job and suddenly all symptoms came back.

Doc, I am scared, I promise I will ever do this again, I don't know what I was thinking.

I am so young to have all this problem, I am only 23 years old.

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P.S. The hand job exposure is what worries me becuase most of stuff started 2 weeks after that, I have rash, fever, fatigue, stomach cramping, problem, diarreha, not feeling well, neck pain, muscle aches, muscle stiffness, these are all symptomes of HIV.

What is it


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  • Use your own hand in the future. Risky sex begets risky diseases. Are you allergic to latex, oils used in massage parlors etc? Do you have scabies? Get checked for STD's and mono.
    rad-skw 1,605 Replies
    • September 26, 2007
    • 10:58 AM
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  • Yea, I know.. I will do that in the future.But, Who gets STD form Hand job ? Hey guys, I am just sick, I am not stressed or anything and why in the ***l am I having chronic diarreha, fatigue, twitching pain in muscles shoulder, collar bone, hands, change in vision, feel more sick, back shoulder hurts.Stomach problem, makes noise, loose stool, cramping.This is all ARS symptoms.How in the ***l did I become infected with HIV ?Q: How does one become infected with HIV with a hand job from a *****r ?Q: If not HIV, than How does one even get a bacteria through a hand jOb ?I can't believe this that, I am the unlucky one in this freaking planet.Think about it...Who becomes infected with prostate gland from a HAND JOB ??? I DOWho gets chronic diarreha, fever, fatigue, lymph pain, swollen, from a HAND JOB ? I DOEverything you read up on is HIV ..HIV from a HAND JOB ?My doc says, I have to wait at least 3 months before I can do a test other than that it is point less.so Dec I will get a test...... Has there ever been a case of HIV through blood to genital of open tip on penis or rash on penis ???My Urologist who treated me for prostate infection says, YES, you can get infected with HIV if she had even just a little cut.Scared the **** out of me.Anyone here got any prostate infection or anything from Hand JOB ?????Any Hand Job nightmares.Well, First to get HIV through Hand job.You guys are all lucky, everybody is having sex, with 20 girls, 100 and still dont get ****...I on the other hand 3 partners max, and 1 hand job from a *****r, BOOOM, freaking have all the STD In the world.Look at all those freaking predators you see on TV, those mofos dont get ****, they are the one who should end up with STD.Why us, what have we done , a simple mistake in life ???God save me...I am sick of this becuase, I have Diarreha, which I can't take it, change in vision from it, stomach pain, cramping, nasuea, fatigue, u name it from whtaHand Job ?
    goloka 5 Replies
    • September 26, 2007
    • 04:07 PM
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  • First of all you need to calm down here. take a breath and relax. Go back to what you were saying. 3 years you had protected and unprotected sex with a *****r. Whats this 12 years stuff tested positive for HIV?? First of all your 23, so your saying you had sex when you were 11??? I was still playing barbies at that age!!!!! If you tested positive for aids at that time, then you need to face it you've got it. I'd assume the hand job had nothing to do with it and why would you let a message therapist message your penis??? I have a hard time believing a message therapist would message your penis. They don't message genitals, they are paid to massage your body. If someone went massaging my genitals I'd be very *****d. You did not get anything from the massage, you have gotten something from having sex. Why didn't you just get a girlfriend instead of searching for hookers?? It's safer having one partner, everyone knows that. Another concern that gets me is complaining of swelling in arm pits, neck, groin, amongst other areas. I really think you've got cancer and you need to be screened as soon as possible. And I'm thinking lymphoma. I would go back to your GP and tell him you've tested positive a few years back with HIV so he can put you on the right treatment plan. Then I would suggest cancer screening. It's obvious with the white count being the way it is. And your doctor tells you- I don't know??? Come on-give me a break. Rash can occur with aids or HiV positive. Syphillis can also cause a rash. So, which one are you HIV positive or aids.
    Anonymous 42,789 Replies
    • September 26, 2007
    • 04:32 PM
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  • I did not get HIV from sex... I will tell u whyI was 19 and had sex with a escort, and I had whole bunch a symptoms, for tested for all std and neg. Tested for HIV at 3 months from that exposure, 5, 6 months and 12 months WB All absence and neg.All other STD neg.CMV, HHV 6 were Positive My doc says I got CFIDS.2 years later I did a CD 4 / CD 8 immune system test, Ratio was good, CD 4 were higher than Cd 8 ... So no HIV.Okay, know 7 weeks I made a mistake, went a massage parlor and got a hand job. After that I had all the symptoms, lymph nodes pain, fever, fatigue, rash behind my neck, liver pain, pain in groin area, muscle pain, sweat, chiillsThese are all symptoms of HIV.In other words, Am I the first one to get HIV from a hand job ?Q: Did the massage parlor girl have a cuts on her hand and the blood went into to my tip of my penis and got HIV ?I am so unlucky.If I came out okay, I will never ever do this again.I hate my self.That I got hIVhas anyone ever gotten HIV even with Cuts.What concern me is that I have HPV Wart and I think that it may of have went in here.
    goloka 5 Replies
    • September 26, 2007
    • 11:54 PM
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  • Cipro can cause pseudomembraneous colitis, which is horrible diarrhea, and it can occur up to six weeks AFTER taking a course of antibiotics. This is likely the cause of your stomach upset. Get a good quality PROBIOTIC and take it daily...try to find one with sacchromyces boulardii a strain that helps fight the c. difficile infection... this is hard to find... Get some therapy to figure out why you are participating in self destructive behavior. Best wishesDOM
    acuann 3,080 Replies
    • September 27, 2007
    • 00:23 AM
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  • Yea, no I will not do this kind of stuff.What about, HIV ?U think I got hIV as well ?
    Anonymous 42,789 Replies
    • September 27, 2007
    • 00:26 AM
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  • No I will not do this again, I hate my self for it.But do you think I contracted HIV from it ?HIV a possibility ?
    goloka 5 Replies
    • September 27, 2007
    • 00:27 AM
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  • No I will not do this again, I hate my self for it. But do you think I contracted HIV from it ? HIV a possibility ? Don't hate yourself - LOVE yourself and get the help/therapy you need. Get tested for HIV and put the fears to rest. Best wishesDOM
    acuann 3,080 Replies
    • September 27, 2007
    • 06:35 PM
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  • Your doc told you that you have CFIDS? That stands for chronic fatigue IMMUNE DYSFUNCTION syndromeAIDS is acquired IMMUNE DEFECIENCY syndrome Defeciencies cause dysfunction. Do you see the similarities in these two? Many of the symptoms are the same. They are saying CFIDS is AIDS without the HIV. The symptoms are very similar if you compare the two. Perhaps your symptoms have nothing to do with the sexual encounter.More than likely it is all CFIDS symptoms. Where do you live? Take care....mommy cat
    mommy cat 1,654 Replies
    • September 27, 2007
    • 10:27 PM
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  • Hey buddy, you are a hypochondriac. You should just relax a bit. Sex is fun. Wear protection when you can, and you need to realize that you roll the dice when you do not. You also run the risk of slipping or breaking condoms, but this is a risk just like driving a car or flying. Everything you do in any society is a risk. Sex workers are generally more cautious than the general population because they have to be. Remember, sex workers are people and they have lives too. It is a shared risk. I would recommend using latex and flavored latex condoms for all sexual encounters. You cannot trust your sexual life with just one partner. This is also high risk because unfortunately everyone has different motives. This can also make a separation or a divorce even more traumatic. The good news is that HIV/AIDS will be cured within the next 5-10 years because everyone is at risk: the family man who sends his child to school, health care workers, and so on. I would recommend calming down, being realistic, and enjoying your sexual life. Sex is natural, and she be approached as such responsibly.
    helloworld 1 Replies
    • February 1, 2009
    • 11:28 AM
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  • I did not get HIV from sex... I will tell u whyQ: Did the massage parlor girl have a cuts on her hand and the blood went into to my tip of my penis and got HIV ?Cuts in her hand ! ! ! ! Was it a horror film or anything of the sort?I think that education campaigns are exaggerating ... how can HIV be induced into a penis from a hand?
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  • You were never at risk for HIV PERIOD! Do not listen to the others that know nothing about hiv transmission! You are fine>
    Anonymous 42,789 Replies Flag this Response
  • did you get STD tests done? if yes, what were the results?
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  • Hey man i had a sexual encounter as well a year ago and until now have been having the same symptoms as you especially the Diarrhea and i really think its cause of stress, iv been told even if u think you are not stressed and its in the back of your head its still heavy stress on your system and stess can do alot of damage
    Anonymous 42,789 Replies
    • November 22, 2013
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