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I can hardly come

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  • Posted By: nojaculate
  • September 28, 2013
  • 10:55 AM

I am a 52 year old male who has never engaged in any interpersponal sex or intimacy in my life. I chose not to as there are too many complications when one gets involved with someone or even has a quicki or one night stand. It's the safest route to go to never be involved or make love to or have sex with anyone at all ever. I take pride in my life or virginity and celibacy. However, I do masturbate. I've been doing so since I was 12. Now it seems that no matter what, I have to masturbate furiously and heavily in order to come. I feel the need to have the ejaculation but I cannot achieve in a relaxed manner of jerking off. Instead I have to get to the point where i'm about to have a heart attach or anueysm in order to barely come. And then when I do, it doesn't feel as grreat as it should(it stopped feeling 100 per cent when I was 17). I'm getting frustrated with this great strain in acheiving ejaculation and am considering direct prostate stimulation as a possible solution. I'm getting to the point where I'm ready to procure a mechanical device that would stimulate the prostate directly. I have had this level of difficulty in achieving this for about a year. I do have bph and urinate frequently. I am type 2 diabetic, overweight, a heavy smoker, and on psych meds. I'm pathetic.

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