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what to do?

Posted In: Sexual conditions 3 Replies
  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • June 26, 2008
  • 06:39 AM

hie friends!!
I'm going to've sex with my girlfriend soon.i want to know one thing that if she bleeds during sex,what shall i do?
i mean should i stop for a while for her vagina to adjust or something else.
another thing i wanna ask is what should she do after having sex so that her family doesn't know about this.i mean apart from pads,tissue paper etc.. what should she bring with her to stop bleeding..
my query may sound silly but this is my side of story.i'll be obliged if you people help me.
many hugs!

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  • First of all as a 42 year old, I have to say this first. Bring a condom! With that said not every girl bleeds the first time they have intercourse. And the ones that do, don't bleed heavily. To be on the safe side, she might want to wair a pad afterwards so she doesn't spot in her underware. Be gentle and kind and ask her how she feels. Let her know that you are willing to stop at any point. This way she will feel safe and not be worried about any pain. I wish you the best of luck and pleas practice safe sex! Kiera
    Anonymous 42789 Replies Flag this Response
  • So you're ready for all the responsibilities of fatherhood? Right? What would her parents think?
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies Flag this Response
  • monsterlove- this is a site for advice not judgment - keep your opinions to yourself! arjun - kiera's rigth i wouldn't worry about it too much. just make sure she knows that she can stop any time and that its not a big deal if she does bleed...she might get a bit embarrased if you make a fuss! but most importantly just communicate. x
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