I am female, 19 years old, engaged to my partner of 3 1/2 years who is a month older than me. We live together in our house, financially stable and in a very solid relationship. We have both been through college, passed our exams and in the careers we want to be in.
However, a year 4months ago i had an unplanned pregnancy and misscarried, when i was 18. i felt totally guilty.
A week ago a close mate told me she was pregnant (unplanned, relationship of 4months and she'd getting rid). i know i'm supposed to support her an all, but all i find is i'm totally jealous of her.
We want kids someday but we're only just off the base in our careers. is it too soon?
Also i had the injection after misscarreing last year as i didn't want to end up trying to replace the lost baby. is it the same emotions now that have been brought back by my mate being pregnant?
And finally, i know 19 seems young, but i'm only a few months of 20 and 20-30 are the best years for concieving. if i wait will i miss my chance altogether?
I have spoken to my partner about this, but we are unable to come to a descision and don't want to make the wrong one.