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Very low sex drive and pain with erection

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  • Posted By: worriedGF2939
  • September 29, 2009
  • 11:27 PM

My boyfriend is suffering from a complete lack of interest in sex. He does not initiate sex, and feels uncomfortable even talking about it. We are both in our early 20s and we both are very healthy and active.

He is able to maintain an erection, and with concentration and extra stimulation, he is able to have sex. However, the last time we attempted intercourse, about 10 minutes in we had to stop, because he was suffering from a painfull feeling, similar to that of the need to urinate. We have not attempted anything since, and that was four weeks ago.

We have been together for 5 years, and up untill the last five months, we had sex 4 to 5 times a week, at least. Now, he shows no intrest, and vary little response to my advances. In the last 5 months, we have had sex 4 times.

I'm begining to worry that something deeper may be wrong, and that his low libido is just a marker. He has also had an increase in headaches, and general moodiness.

Does anyone have any ideas or advice?

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