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Vaginal Bleeding days after sex.

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  • Posted By: kuman30
  • September 11, 2007
  • 04:39 PM

Hi, I'm really sorry if this topic has already been exhausted but I looked and looked and couldn't find a specific answer I was looking for. My girlfriend of 4-5 months had sex for our 3rd time about 4 days ago. There was alcohol involved so it ended up being a really long session for me probably lasting around 25-30 minutes at which point she stopped me because she was exhausted and told me that I was "putting her over the edge." In the morning she told me that she was sore from the night before, and I didn't think anything of it.

Well yesterday she sent me a message concerned because she had some minor bleeding happening for the last few days. I did a little bit of looking and assumed it was normal, and she did the same. Well today she responded to me and said that when she woke up this morning she was bleeding more than ever... and she doesn't know what to do.

We were both virgins before we came a couple and my only other sexual experience was some oral sex from a girl around 3 years ago so I am ruling out any kind of STD as a cause.

Please help me out before she decides to tell her mom she needs to see an OBGYN... as I have a good relationship with her parents and it would be a very embarassing ordeal for both me and her.

Again I apologize if this question has been answered before...

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  • some additional information if it matters... she's 17 and I'm 19... she's a pretty petite girl, I wore a spermicidally lubricated condom (and didn't even finish for that matter :( ), and I'm probably a little bit large for her vagina or whatever (god I hate talking about this), please anyone tell me something good so I can tell her something good.
    kuman30 1 Replies
    • September 11, 2007
    • 05:24 PM
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  • Well vaginal bleeding after sex can be caused from stds and other infections but because you were both virgins its probably caused because of your girlfriends hymen breaking. Its not unusual for bleeding to happen for a couple of times after you first have sex because it may not have completly broken..but it sounds like she is describing alot of bleeding which doesnt sound normal. just get your gf to visit the doctor (her parents dont have to know anything) and check it out.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • September 19, 2007
    • 10:39 AM
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