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stomach, vaginal, back pain! help!

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  • Posted By: dmama1369
  • May 17, 2008
  • 05:32 AM

HELLO,
LETS JUST START WITH MY MEDICAL BACKGROUND. I HAD A BABY MARCH OF 2007. WHEN I HAD MY DAUGHTER I HAD A STAGE 4 TEAR AND HAD TO GET LOTS OF STITCHES. I WAS ON BED REST FOR 8 WEEKS. I HAVE A LEAKY BLADDER AND RECTUM EVERY SINCE. I HAVE HAD VERY PAINFUL INTERCOURSE EVERY SINCE. I AM HAVING INTERMITTED PAIN THAT IS SO BAD IT FEELS LIKE CONTRACTIONS THAT HAPPENS AT VARIOUS TIMES. I HAD AN ABNORMAL PAP WHEN I WENT FOR MY CHECK UP AFTER 6 WEEKS. SO MY DOCTOR PERFORMED A LEEP TO GET RID OF THESE. I HAD A ULTRASOUND LAST WEEK AND THEY TOLD ME THAT EVERYTHING WAS NORMAL. I HAVE HAD 4 UTI'S THAT SEEMED TO NEVER GO AWAY. LIKE I SAY I AM HAVING LOTS OF BREAKTHROUGH BLEEDING. I TRIED THE BIRTH CONTROL SHOT...I BLED FOR 90 DAYS. I TRIED AN IUD AND IT CAUSED ME SO MUCH PAIN I HAD TO GET IT REMOVED. NOW MY DOCTOR IS TELLING ME TO TAKE BC PILLS FOR 3 MONTHS, AND WE'LL SEE WHAT THIS DOES. I AM JUST FED UP. I AM IN PAIN, AND I DON'T EVEN WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH MY HUSBAND AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO BECAUSE WHEN YOU ARE HAVING PAIN LIKE THIS, WHO WANTS TO HAVE SEX??? I NEED SOME HELP...PLEASE! THANK YOU IN ADVANCE! EMILY FISHER.

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  • Well, with that tear, it would take a couple of years to feel normal, I think. After my first child, it took that long. I think you have 2-3 different conditions compounding your diagnosis. First, a bad pap means HPV, usually. If you have hpv (ask your doctor if that is what the lab work said)--I'd be *****d. You need to get checked for other STDs, like chlamydia. They don't like to tell married women that they have a STD (it's been my experience)...they just say "bacteria". Fix the UTI and STD and your husband, of course, if there is a STD, needs meds. Good luck.Birth control: it's all a mess....men should have to take a pill.Birth trauma: let's find a different doctor and get a second opinion on all of the tears and inside trauma. Maybe you need surgery for some repairs.Hormones: they're messed up right now, out of balance..try a preventative doctor for a formula that would help.Acupuncture: helps a lot for female problems.
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