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so scared.. someone helpp..

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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • January 18, 2007
  • 05:10 AM

im only 14, im home with the flu.. i am a virgin.. i've never done anything other than kiss a boy.. i have sores on my vagina.. i have no idea what they could be but they hurt sooo much.. i can barley sit down! please someone if you have had anything even related to this problem PLEASE tell me what you did to make them go away! pleaseee :'(

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  • Hey. even if your not active, it could be herpes still. You could of gotten them from sitting on an infected toilet or something. talk to your parents, if you hide it they won't trust you. and if worse comes to worse, go to the local free clinic with a friend and get tested.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 19, 2007
    • 10:15 PM
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  • I would say catching things from a toilet seat is pretty rare/difficult, and a bit of a myth.It's definitely possible to transfer the Herpes virus from a cold sore to the genitals though as it's the same virus (herpes simplex), through touching your mouth then genitals; or through oral sex).But it may not be herpes anyway.You can go anonymously to a GU (Genito Urinary) clinic if you can't face going to your GP.I would ring NHS Direct if you are in the UK and ask about services you can go to locally - you won't have to give your name with them either, I'm sure.You may simply have a few spots which have become infected?Whatever the case, don't feel alone, there is help out there! ;)
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 24, 2007
    • 03:22 PM
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  • Hiya chicken i feel so sorry fr you. dont be scared, your parents are there to help. if you tell her you've never had sex with anyone and tell her you wouldnt lie about something this serious. she will worry of course but at least she'll take you to a doc and sort you out. dont get embarrassed either, because doctors see much worse things. believe me, they wont be grossed out or anything. so take a chance and tell your mom. ok?good luck!
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • February 1, 2007
    • 10:40 PM
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  • It could be sores from tight underwear (tight thongs) or somehow you have rubbed yourself raw in some areas with friction of some sort (riding horses, really tight jeans, masturbating, there are many possibilities). It also could be a localized yeast infection. I am older but I went to the doc once worried that I had gotten herpes and it was just a localized yeast infection. It was just a "bump" that was really sore and itchy, but the bump was just caused by yeast. I also got sore once from an allergic reaction to a soap I was using. It is remotely possible that you got herpes somehow, but more than likely it's not. You do need to talk to your parents and just tell them you've got something going on down there, and you think you might have a yeast infection or something but have never had sex and have never had any kind of infection down there before, so you don't know what it is, and you need help. If they start accusing you of having sex just tell them you promise you didn't and if they are still worried invite them to look through your room and keep a really good eye on you and you'll prove that you don't do that. You have nothing to hide...make sure they feel comfortable with that so they can trust you now and in the future. You sound like a good kid. Good luck to you!
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • February 10, 2007
    • 05:48 AM
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  • Talk to your parents about it. Dont make the mistake of hiding it because if they find out, they will assume you have done things that you have not. Tell your mom what is going on, and if she asks, tell her that you have not done anything but kiss. It probably isnt a big problem, but it is something your mom would be better to go to then an internet site (no offence anyone).Dont be affraid to talk to your parents about it. It will show them that they can trust you to come to them with your problems.Hope it helps
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • February 12, 2007
    • 05:52 AM
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  • ^^I second that. Go to your parents (your mom would be your best bet imo) and tell them what is going on. I know that isnt the easiest thing to do, but it would be the smartest thing you could do. -AcId-
    AcIdBuRn02ZTS 9 Replies
    • February 12, 2007
    • 06:00 AM
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  • Mono can produce sores... Maybe you have mono and not the flu? Get it checked out by a doctor.
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  • we dont know this mother .or this father.this child has asked for our help ;if she felt free to talk to her parents she would not have asked.if she has made this judgement about their limitations who are we to second guess her. my advice to her would be to back her gut feeling in this and stay smart enough to ensure that good ol ma an pa dont find out .if the trust isnt there we cant grow it for her.and ...think hard folks,there may be an excellent reason why trust is absent.a little more empathy and insight, please. i cant advise you my dear, about the ways available to you to get the confidential help you need,because i am unfamiliar with american provision.i hope somebody comes up with something for you soon.
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