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Sexual dysfunction??

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  • Posted By: joyanna123
  • February 8, 2007
  • 11:52 PM

i am 21 and female

when i have sexual intercourse i feel pain and discomfort at first, then afterwards i feel nothing at all--just the fullness of a penis going in and out and that is it. it doesn't matter what position it is, it is still unsatisfying. when i am in the missionary position with my legs over the guy's shoulders it feels as though i have to defecate

also, i notice that i enjoy oral sex (giving and receiving) and clitorial stimulation over sexual intercourse. for instance, if i am stimulating my clitoris against a stuffed object (a pillow) or rubbing it against a person's body, it feels very good and is sexually satisfying to where i don't need penetration. frankly, i can live without sexual intercourse. but i realize that this is not normal and will only cause problems in future relationships with men. i do want to enjoy sexual intercourse like most ppl...any help?

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  • Honestly? I would say it would be more of a moral decision on your part. You could find a male who enjoys oral sex and just deal with the intercourse. You could also find a woman and enjoy the oral play and sexual devices. It's your choice.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • February 12, 2007
    • 10:09 AM
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  • You could also masturbate while your partner performs sexual intercourse. It's not unheard of that a good number of women can only achieve orgasm this way. Take care.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • February 12, 2007
    • 11:47 AM
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  • Honestly? I would say it would be more of a moral decision on your part. You could find a male who enjoys oral sex and just deal with the intercourse. You could also find a woman and enjoy the oral play and sexual devices. It's your choice.i am not attracted to women at all. i'm not gay. but the thing is i really want to enjoy sexual intercourse like most women. it really distresses me that i can't feel anything. You could also masturbate while your partner performs sexual intercourse. It's not unheard of that a good number of women can only achieve orgasm this way. Take care but most women can at least feel some form of pleasure through intercourse. i don't feel anything. this isn't normal because most people think that i am crazy when i say i don't enjoy penetration.
    joyanna123 1 Replies
    • February 12, 2007
    • 07:25 PM
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  • Hi there,Im 20 and i have the exact same problem, My partner has to get me off before or after sex as when we have sex, i feel nothing, id happily not have sex, but feel terrible for my partner. i love him so much. I was watching a tv show one of the medical ones and they mentioned a G Shot. But i dont think they would come cheap. Well any advise is welcomed
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • September 23, 2007
    • 04:08 PM
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  • Buy a vibrator and use it to learn what you like
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • September 29, 2007
    • 09:07 AM
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