i am 21 and female
when i have sexual intercourse i feel pain and discomfort at first, then afterwards i feel nothing at all--just the fullness of a penis going in and out and that is it. it doesn't matter what position it is, it is still unsatisfying. when i am in the missionary position with my legs over the guy's shoulders it feels as though i have to defecate
also, i notice that i enjoy oral sex (giving and receiving) and clitorial stimulation over sexual intercourse. for instance, if i am stimulating my clitoris against a stuffed object (a pillow) or rubbing it against a person's body, it feels very good and is sexually satisfying to where i don't need penetration. frankly, i can live without sexual intercourse. but i realize that this is not normal and will only cause problems in future relationships with men. i do want to enjoy sexual intercourse like most ppl...any help?