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Sex HELP

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  • Posted By: arick21
  • September 28, 2006
  • 02:29 AM

I am a female in my mid-twenties, and cannot ******m during sex. I have no problem climaxing by myself, but I actually like having sex and dream about it often. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, the relationship is great, stable, and going... except for this. :eek: Any suggestions.

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  • 1. No more sex for awhile, especially masturbating (touching and making out yes). This is to make you frustrated.2. No talking about everyday stuff in the bedroom. Especially in bed.3. Have an element of adventure in your life (a camping trip together, for example). This will build trust and love.4. Love is a verb: take care of eachother-- cook for eachother, talk on the phone during the day, etc.5. Take care of your self- image. Wear nice, well fitting clean clothes. Look in the mirror, and don't leave until youre sure you look cute.6. Tell your bf when something is upsetting you. Don't let resentments build up. Also listen to his gripes, and make reasonable changes for both of your happiness.7. When you do have sex again, play music or light incense to make it sexy.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • September 28, 2006
    • 02:26 PM
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  • Do you only do vaginal intercourse? Most females orgasm easier with direct Colitoral stimulation, like you do during masturbation. Try having your bf do oral on you. After you have had exstensive forplay of course.
    jackjill 2 Replies
    • October 9, 2006
    • 07:51 PM
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  • make him lick it and work for it. if it takes an hour he will do it for an hour or longer. you have to take controle of what is going on. when you do, he will learn what you like and then it will happen. dont go on letting him belive he is doing a good job if he isnt. dont rush it and relax. once you have one with him you will wonder why it took so long ; )
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • October 11, 2006
    • 06:01 PM
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  • I have the same problem, I thought there was somthing wrong with me. I can have an orgasm alone or with oral, but thats it. Wish I could have one during sex, its very boring. I know how you feel!
    kindrex30 7 Replies Flag this Response
  • Hi, I could probably help you with positions and movements that would help you have orgasms during intercourse. You could email me at jackjill21221@yahoo.com
    jackjill 2 Replies Flag this Response
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