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Sensation to urinate when haveing sex

Posted In: Sexual conditions 7 Replies
  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • April 12, 2007
  • 07:25 PM

I am 25 and I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. Like most men he has a healthy sex drive and I unfortunatly don't. I am very rarely in the mood, so sometimes just to to be nice I will just give in. It is not enjoyable and I am very tense and feel like I have to urinate the whole time. It is very uncomfortable and I know he gets frustrated as well. I don't want to deprive him because, I know that it is not fair to him. What can I do? He says he it would never happen but, I'm afraid that this will eventually cause us to break up.

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  • Could it be due to the wrong approach? I feel like peeing only when my clitoris gets over-stimulated. What things have you two tried? Did you try to relax and go slow, enjoy his touches and cuddling and things like that?Is he the first guy you had sex with?
    KnowSUMthings 153 Replies Flag this Response
  • see a doctor could be a problem
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • December 20, 2007
    • 04:49 PM
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  • Do you have any bladder symptoms? I had this issue and I went to a urologist and it helped a lot!
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • December 30, 2007
    • 03:55 AM
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  • Tell him you have decided to wait until you are married. I don't think you are ready for this. You never have to have sex to be nice. You do it for other reasons, but not for the reasons you have stated. It happens sometimes...the urge to urinate...get some disposal large pads like hospitals use and just put that down if you continue to do something you're not really in to...
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies
    • December 31, 2007
    • 03:47 AM
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  • The best thing is to go into your doctor and make sure there isnt some medical problem going on.And if nothing is found maybe going in to see a therpist will help.Also could be sensitivity or maybe your partner isnt doing the things that you like.I would talk to him and explain whats going on.Not talking about it can lead to major relationship problems.And is this urge felt only with vaginal intercourse?If so it could be he is stimulating your g spot.Many women say they feel the need to go to the bathroom until they get use to the sensation.http://www.sexual-health-resource.org/g_spot.htm
    cooksey125 2 Replies
    • January 3, 2008
    • 04:00 PM
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  • I have the same issue. I have frequent UTIs and bladder problems all the time, but the sex thing is driving me crazy. I read that when your g-spot is stimulated you get the urge to pee, but I have had a little experiment qwith my boyfriend to see what would happen if I just relaxed and I DO urinate. I can even feel my bladder filling up and then it gets sore and after sex I have to run straight to the bathroom.
    Nymphete 21 Replies
    • December 1, 2008
    • 11:22 PM
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  • You don't have sex, "just to be nice"...you're exposing yourself to diseases and pregnancy possibilities. It's not the right reason to have sex. If he respects the relationship, he will continue with a friendship. If not, then he wasn't worth it in the first place. If she really just wants to be nice, she can just give him oral sex, but there's not much give and take.
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies
    • December 2, 2008
    • 00:42 AM
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