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Possible Pregnancy From Fingering?

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  • Posted By: thatredfella
  • December 20, 2006
  • 09:29 PM

I fingered my girlfriend and we were sitting down, I guided her hand to touch my genital but I didn't "whip it out" and it remained in the underwear, but I used the pocket or whatever you call it that is on most underwear that is used when a man goes to the bathroom. Now, I am not certain if I might have touched anything while putting my hand there and then fingered her. I did not have an orgasm, mind you, so if anything, the only thing that would be there if I even touched anything would be pre **m. Since I used that slit on the underwear, I would have touched the side/shaft of the penis and I am thinking it is highly unlikely I got precum on my fingers then fingered her, even in which case, would still be unlikely to cause pregnancy, not so? It was dark (cinema) and I was wearing baggy jeans so it was a bit hard to navigate. Did I hold on to the penis and masturbate? No, may have just touched the side with my fingers. I also went to the bathroom, to urinate, may have had contact with something, possibly, but I was peeing and I would have washed my hands after in any case. We were fingering and stopping, took breaks and then went back. Also, I had to leave due to an emergency while I was fingering and had to wash hands when I got home, should I worry about anything? I also have a small, something, not really a cut, on one of my fingers, an index, right above the nail, where, for some people the skin tends to go up on some fingers, you may know what I am talking about. Even though my girlfriend is a virgin, should I worry about that, since it is technically an "open sore"? though it wasn't blleding or anything, to my knowledge, only really noticing today since I was looking for any cuts after what I did and saw that.

In short:

Fingered girlfriend
Put her hand to touch penis, using slot in underwear
Wondering if I may have gotten pre-**m on my fingers then fingered her if we should be concerned about pregnancy
Penis remained in underwear, just put hand inthe side slit, doubtful of touching the tip
Did not ejaculate so we're dealing with pre **m if anything got on me at all.Thanks, and yes, I am a paranoid person. Should we try to get EC to be safe or something, or is the risk really too small? This happened approx 24 hours ago.

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  • There was no risk!!!!!
    KnowSUMthings 153 Replies
    • December 29, 2006
    • 01:08 AM
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  • Thanks for the reply....
    thatredfella 12 Replies
    • December 29, 2006
    • 08:22 PM
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  • No Pregnacy Rick. Keep Fingering Her Til You Are Married. And Girls Like It Any Ways.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • December 31, 2006
    • 01:38 AM
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  • I too think pregnancy there would be highly unlikely so dont worry.... and as far as the cut on your finger is concerned .. i really doubt if you are going to go and infect her with something there either unless you have something like aids. On the topic of precum.. there is the possibility of sperm leaking with that.. so in future do make sure that you dont have it on fingers and then go fingering her.
    taniaaust1 2267 Replies
    • January 3, 2007
    • 08:20 AM
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  • Don't worry buddy!!! And have fun. This is a normal worry. Since your girlfriend is a virgin and I know that you guys haven't had sex, it's okay to freak out sometimes. But I can assure you that the risk of pregnancy from mutual masterbation is slim to none. I am a nurse and from a medical point of view, I can tell you right now that even if you went to the doctor to see if she was pregnant more than likely the doctor wouldn't even see the need for a pregnancy test under these circumstances. Unless you just wanted to make sure. And if making sure would make you both feel better, go to your local health department. They can give you usually a free pregnancy test and it's completely confidential. No one will have to know but the two of you and the doctor she sees. :)
    NurseCJT 25 Replies
    • January 3, 2007
    • 08:42 AM
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  • ok yeah...I was worried about the same thing...only with me there was actual **m involved...my boyfriend and I aren't exactly sure if any got on his hands...I was careful with mine...I've missed a period (granted my periods are usually really weird) but I'm still worried. What is the likelyhood of me being pregnant if there was **m on his hands during mutual masterbation?
    alibabwa 1 Replies
    • February 7, 2007
    • 01:43 AM
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  • I think your really immature. This is a medical website based on people with true medical problems who are sick and need help. I really don't think your funny- this is not a ***n site for you to be having fun. As far as the movie theater goes if I were were girlfriend I would of plum just smacked you in the face and left. How could you treat her like that??? Do you think women are just play dolls or something??? Do you know what you did to her in the movie theater was just downgrading her character??? I don't care if it was dark or not??? You need to grow up a bit.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • February 7, 2007
    • 04:20 PM
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  • ok yeah...I was worried about the same thing...only with me there was actual **m involved...my boyfriend and I aren't exactly sure if any got on his hands...I was careful with mine...I've missed a period (granted my periods are usually really weird) but I'm still worried. What is the likelyhood of me being pregnant if there was **m on his hands during mutual masterbation?so no one really answered this one. is it possible if there was **m
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 29, 2008
    • 07:52 PM
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  • so no one really answered this one. is it possible if there was **m?I he had **m on his fingers and then fingered her it is possible, unlikely but still possible. People have gotten pregnant through mutual masturbation.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • February 10, 2008
    • 09:04 PM
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  • I think your really immature. This is a medical website based on people with true medical problems who are sick and need help. I really don't think your funny- this is not a ***n site for you to be having fun. As far as the movie theater goes if I were were girlfriend I would of plum just smacked you in the face and left. How could you treat her like that??? Do you think women are just play dolls or something??? Do you know what you did to her in the movie theater was just downgrading her character??? I don't care if it was dark or not??? You need to grow up a bit.where are the pictures???Does anyone mind this kid asking here besides this guy??? Well, let me say this...the kid must have lacked an education at one point in his life. Probably his parents, if he has both of them, never discussed the facts of life with him and he is trying to find out some information the best way he can. I believe this web site is an educational opportunity and we adults can use it for a "teaching moment" for this kid. There's no ***n here. Kids do what kids do; no blame but they need an education in sex and they need to learn to be responsible. Young man, even messing around, learn to use a condom properly so no pre-**m leaks could even go anywhere near your girlfriend...and also, some news, condoms fall off, break apart and don't protect you from all stds...you need to pinch the tip to squeeze the air out as you roll it down your penis and then when you withdraw (when you are 20, right?), you grab onto the top of the condom so that it does not fall off during the withdrawal...sex is scary once you start. there's a lot of stress over emotions and pregnancy, so for the most part...it's trouble...and no...I don't believe your gf is pregnant. If you do plan to have sex with this girl, and it sounds like you are getting close to it, I would suggest that she go to planned parenthood and get the depo shot. It is a reliable method of birth control, along with a condom for disease control on your part.
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies
    • February 11, 2008
    • 08:04 AM
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  • I still am of the belief that if you have to ask "is there a chance of pregnancy from fingering", then you're too young and not educated enough on the topic of sex and it's risks/consequences to be partaking in such activities.
    ArkanSass 17 Replies Flag this Response
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  • She may still get pregnant through fingering. Sometimes when a man spunks up, he does it that hard it comes out his fingernails. You better go and consult with a doctor and just buy some skuddy books in hte meantime.Plus if your that thick to ask this question you shouldn't even be LOOKING at a ladygarden never mind touching one!.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies Flag this Response
  • I think your really immature. This is a medical website based on people with true medical problems who are sick and need help. I really don't think your funny- this is not a ***n site for you to be having fun. As far as the movie theater goes if I were were girlfriend I would of plum just smacked you in the face and left. How could you treat her like that??? Do you think women are just play dolls or something??? Do you know what you did to her in the movie theater was just downgrading her character??? I don't care if it was dark or not??? You need to grow up a bit.Before you go shooting people down for lack of knowledge, please learn how to use the proper form of "you're". There is nothing wrong with being parinoid. Yes, perhaps this guy should read up or ask someone questions about sex before doing things with his girlfriend, but trying to make him feel worse is not helping the situation in any way. I'm all about women's empowerment but assuming that he's treating her like a play doll? They're kids and they're experimenting! To thatredfella, I say have fun, (as long as she's willing) and just be careful. You should get some more information about sex before doing anything else. It's okay to be cautious, it's better than being the opposite.
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  • im a medical professional, and think u might have gotten her pregnant...... GET HER CHECKED..FINGERING SPREADS THE RISK OF AIDS AS WELL..... BE CAREFUL!
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • August 16, 2008
    • 09:19 PM
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  • Ok is it possible if he had pre **m on his finger but rinsed his hand under running water before entering the girl
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  • Not a chance she would become impregnated. Well - one in a million.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies Flag this Response
  • Not a chance she would become impregnated. Well - one in a million.Ok now i'm getting really worried. same kind of thing happened me yesterday and i dont know if he touched himself beofre he fingered me.is there really a risk of getting pregnant from this?
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  • i did the same thing and i fingered a girl i think i might have gotten precome in her vigina it was smaller then a skittle (the amount of precome) i dont know if i wiped all of it out do u think she can be pregnant im scared out my misery.please give me a real answer dont just say no just to ease my mind off thanks
    ftkdabest6 2 Replies
    • August 15, 2010
    • 02:04 AM
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  • I think your really immature. This is a medical website based on people with true medical problems who are sick and need help. I really don't think your funny- this is not a ***n site for you to be having fun. As far as the movie theater goes if I were were girlfriend I would of plum just smacked you in the face and left. How could you treat her like that??? Do you think women are just play dolls or something??? Do you know what you did to her in the movie theater was just downgrading her character??? I don't care if it was dark or not??? You need to grow up a bit.ok im in the same situation u were and i was wondering if u got pregnant ccan u answer this question asap thanks im scared out my misery
    ftkdabest6 2 Replies
    • August 15, 2010
    • 03:53 AM
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