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PLEASE HELP ME ! When I have sex it hurts me..

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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • October 2, 2007
  • 06:36 PM

Please help me When I have sex it hurts me. The internal entrance of my vagina is very swollen therefore when I try to have sex i'm so tight it hurts an as I keep having sex I get tighter until eventually he can't even enter me because it's so closed and if he tries it burns. After sex I am swollen for like 2-3 days. I also have external itching. Well I have been to several Dr.'s and they give me medication for yeast infections but that does not help at all and when I put the applicator in me even the applicator hurts me. All my STD tests are negative and my papsmear just comes out that there is fungus in my vagina but that is why they give me the yeast infection medication. Dr's have also suggested that I may be allergic to his semen but he doesn't even finish in me (i know this is not the case) This has been going on for 1 year and I've been to several Dr's. Please help me I can't even have sex with my boyfriend it hurts so much that I have cried because of the pain, If anyone can help me or has suggestions I WILL APPRECIATE IT.

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  • Just because he doesn't come inside you doesn't mean you are not allergic. There is pre-ejaculatory discharge and it DOES contain sperm. You didn't mention if you are using condoms...if so, have you considered a possible latex allergy?The only other thing I can think of is psychological. If you have any anxiety about the idea or the physical act of sex your pelvic muscles can actually clamp down so hard a man could not get in and if he did it would be painful. I experienced this one personally years ago when a boyfriend was really pressuring me to have sex. I hope you figure out what is going on!
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • October 9, 2007
    • 04:25 PM
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  • Try some acupuncture, like 3 visits. Sounds like an infection that passes by all the tests. Maybe use the fungus medicine when you have your acupuncture treatment.
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies
    • October 10, 2007
    • 05:43 AM
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  • i have the same problem. One thing I have learned is that the opening into your vagina expands when you are being stimulated so try some fourplay, and it wouldnt help to use some lubricant just to start off with.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • November 1, 2007
    • 10:41 PM
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  • I know this post was a LONG time ago...but if you are still checking this...or if there are other people who are experiencing this same thing...I have the same problems and have been diagnosed with vaginismus. Check out this website....it explains the disorder very well! http://www.vaginismus.com/ GOOD LUCK!
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • October 2, 2008
    • 10:27 PM
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