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please help me. im very scared.

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  • Posted By: Ramone1
  • August 20, 2008
  • 08:03 PM

i usually have my period for two to three days then it stops and about a day later starts again for about another two days or so. on the day that it stopped i had sex with a condom but it broke. i was just pregnant in march and becuase of my heart problems i was told to get an abortion because either me or the baby could die. so i did. im very afraid that i may be pregnant again. i have not missed a period yet but last time, even before my missed period i knew and found out. ive never paid any attention to cervical mucus before and now i am and cant really pin-point where i am in my cycle cause the CM doesnt seem like anything i can find online. Could i be pregnant. Im very afraid because i dont want to go through the heartache of an abortion again. im not even okay from the last one. please, im asking with my heart, somone help me. i know its hard to concieve on your period but does the break in mine mean that im ovulating during one part. and then my period starts or something. please help. i dont want to hurt anymore over this. i want to heal, not make it more painful. thank you
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  • It's unlikely that you are pregnant. Not to say impossible, but very unlikely. Your periods build up the uterine lining over two to three weeks before ovulation, so that there is a place for the egg. When can you have a pregnancy test?About the abortion, unfortunately there are situations when we as women have to make this decision. You made a choice based on the advice of your physician. You can't take care of anyone if you are not healthy yourself. And you do no one any favors to put your life at risk. As hard as it is to come to grips with an abortion, I hope you will understand that you were personally at risk. The Catholic Church, while teaching against abortions, is very understanding and forgiving for those women who have had them. In part this is surely because whenever a women is given the oppportunity to follow the Mary path of Mother, it is a blessing. Unfortunately we cannot always accept the blessing, and this hurts, greatly.Please, if you are Catholic, be absolved in confession. If not, see a counselor who will help you work through this. In concern, Marionstar
    marionstar 228 Replies
    • August 21, 2008
    • 04:57 AM
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  • I can take a pregnancy test on around the first or second of next month. its a while to wait and untill then, sleepless nights and a lot of tears
    Ramone1 2 Replies
    • August 21, 2008
    • 08:27 AM
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  • Dear Ramone1, my prayers are with you. Marionstar
    marionstar 228 Replies
    • August 21, 2008
    • 08:41 PM
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