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lost sex drive

Posted In: Sexual conditions 4 Replies
  • Posted By: mugzy322
  • December 14, 2006
  • 03:00 PM

My sex drive is completely gone. I am 29 and suffer from alot of pain in my upper back. My marriage is wonderful it does'nt have anything to do with that I just don't have desire. Does anyone else feel like this?

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  • i think in marriage even when its a good marriage, sex can get lost in the day to day, maybe even get boring it seems more like a chore even though we dont admit it. i had the same problem, i started reading love novels which got me thinking again. Then i instigated a intimate date with my husband,even though i wasnt really in the mood i pushed my self and faked it, at first after a little while that changed and i enjoyed my self.i suggest to take charge and create and atmosphere it may help. :)
    hatethis 2 Replies
    • December 31, 2006
    • 08:15 PM
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  • I wouldn't push myself, but I completly understand. I'm 27 and feel the same way. I love my husband with all my heart and we have a great marriage but when it comes to sex, it just don't happen often. I think it's because I have young children and by the time we would even have a chance to be alone, I'm so tired and just ready for sleep. I keep hoping that I will get it back. From what I have heard a womans sexual peak is 30 and a mans is 24..to bad they can be together. As long as your husband loves you he will understand and you will get through it.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 12, 2007
    • 07:02 PM
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  • I completly understand. I'm 47 and feel the same way I think It has something to do with heart pills are you on any Medication
    keith.uk 1 Replies Flag this Response
  • why is it happenning to us? i have the same problem. at first i am feeling something like desire, etc..but when it is happenning i didn't came into the climax. i think im frigid. he's the only one feeling the satisfaction.hope someone can help!
    jyannah15 4 Replies Flag this Response
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