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Lacking libido

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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • December 22, 2010
  • 10:53 AM

In the past, I have attempted to be intimate with two men and both times didn't work out because I couldn't get aroused (and thus too dry for sex). I don't enjoy French kissing and being touched/kissed only feels ticklish. I even tried watching ***n to see if it would improve my sexual drive but it didn't help. I have experienced orgasm via masturbation and still do it about once a month or less though it takes a long long time (like 45+ mins) to get there so most of the time, I just give up.

My family thinks I'm gay and I have considered the possibility and after much thinking, I realized that the way I felt about women was the same as men, pleasing visually in clothes but not sexually attractive.

I'm a fit and healthy twenty-six-year-old and for the most part, I am comfortable with being alone. I've been at my job for the last 2+ years and never once have I had a partner so the rumor about me being a virgin among the men was spreading around. I was really embarrassed but only one of them ever asked me directly so far. I really want to get married like my siblings and have children but I may be incapable of having sex or falling in love. I've been thinking about having an one-night-stand and using plenty of lubricant to get it over with... Any helpful advice?

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  • one of the best ways to increase womens libido is to use female viagra. it increases blood flow to the female's reproductive organs and by this way increases sexual pleasure during sexual act. you try this, it will help.also I suggest you to watch **** movies and to use some sex toys with your partner
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