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Im not turned on by him.

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  • Posted By: hypnotiq
  • February 26, 2007
  • 09:24 AM

Me and my bf do four play of course before sex. Its so boring for me though. It doesnt excite me anymore. He kisses my neck and i dont feel any sensation from it. Other things he does doesnt turn me on. Im only 20 and I feel like im losing my drive. I think its because im really insecure in the bed. I am kind of over weight but its really hard for me to lose weight. I still dont get a drive from four play when im not feeling insecure. What can this be? Is sex just getting bad because of my insecurities or is it him? Does anyone else go through this? I was with another man before him that turned me on so much and made me feel beautiful even if i am a little over weight. I didnt feel insecure at all with him.

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  • Have you had your thyroid checked lately???
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • February 26, 2007
    • 04:36 PM
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  • has the sex gotten predictable?do you know what he is going to do before he even does it?maybe you just need to put the spice back in...or maybe your just not compatible
    rebeccamc 40 Replies
    • February 26, 2007
    • 05:36 PM
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  • Sweetie, you need to let the man go if your not happy. You need to stop having sex with these guy before you get something! You need to go to church.
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  • hi there! i think we have the same situation! at first i feel something but when he put it in, i didn't get into the climax. i didn't know if im already immune with the feeling because we're doing it for more than 3 years. im sorry if i can't help you. i also have same problem as yours. i hope someone can help us!
    jyannah15 4 Replies Flag this Response
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