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I need some advice

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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • February 4, 2007
  • 09:34 PM

I believe I have Sexual Aversion Disorder. I have no sexual desire. I find my husband very attractive and love him very much. I want to be able to have sex with him and please him, I just can't. When I do ot os because we have fought so much that I finally give in and usually give oral sex but I try to be quick. It is not that I don't like it and when we do have sex, I enjoy it...I just can't make myself want it. It is hard to explain and it causes son many fights. Usually we have sex maybe once a month. I need help but I live in a small town and I don't know how to find the right person to help me. I don't want to lose my husband. please anyone...email me if you can help.

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  • I know this is a old post but. Dang. sounds like my house. She and I love one another, well I think she does. but we have sex probably once a month. she says its been about 3 to 4. we do and try to make it good but we loose intrest. I think like your case it could be a stress related subject. He fuss and fight and when its time to make love we remember that we were mad and it gets in the way of the pleasure. I think what Im going to have to do is learn to put the fight in the past or some kind of way forgive and try and think more sexual thoughts.
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