I believe I have Sexual Aversion Disorder. I have no sexual desire. I find my husband very attractive and love him very much. I want to be able to have sex with him and please him, I just can't. When I do ot os because we have fought so much that I finally give in and usually give oral sex but I try to be quick. It is not that I don't like it and when we do have sex, I enjoy it...I just can't make myself want it. It is hard to explain and it causes son many fights. Usually we have sex maybe once a month. I need help but I live in a small town and I don't know how to find the right person to help me. I don't want to lose my husband. please anyone...email me if you can help.