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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • January 7, 2007
  • 04:57 AM

my boyfriend and i had sex without protection and he pulled out then we had sex again about an hour or so later and he didnt wash off his penis .. is it possible to get pregnate or does the sperm die???????

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  • my boyfriend and i had sex without protection and he pulled out then we had sex again about an hour or so later and he didnt wash off his penis .. is it possible to get pregnate or does the sperm die??????? yes it does or it may rub of but you have nothing to worry about cause you are not going to get pregnate i know cause i freaked out about some getting on the side of me down there before. ashley:)
    ashleyowens2006 1 Replies
    • January 7, 2007
    • 05:49 AM
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  • Semen usually dies when it hits the air, i have been in situations with my boyfriend like this cause im allergic to birth control but i would be gaurded so it doesnt happen again, this time its probably nothing though- ive heard of women getting pregnant from pre ejaculate so just need to be prepared and safe
    erin23 19 Replies
    • January 7, 2007
    • 06:27 AM
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  • Ok - for starters, the word is PREGNANT not pregnate. How young are you? It is quite niave to believe that "pulling out" is a safe method of birth control. Anything that comes out of his penis could possibly IMPREGNATE you!!! Are you willing to take that chance? I had my first child at 17 and it was no picnic. If I didn't have two wonderful parents that helped out ALOT- I don't think I would have made it. Thankfully, my son is in his early 20's and REASONABLY SENSIBLE (he's through his partyin stage). He works everyday and helps his girlfriend raise her two daughters in a pretty stable environment. Well shortly after my son was born, I GOT PREGNANT AGAIN!!! First time (son) I was on the pill-may have missed ONE DAY??? Second child was a girl> My DR. told me after birth of my son "Don't worry about the Pill- just use this diaphram- you worn't get pregnant again". HAH! My TEENAGE new husband couldn't deal with the second so soon after the first (my son was premature and had problems), so he denied (her) and left me(us). My parents totally helped raise my son but we couldn't swing a second so soon so- I signed her over for adoption. It is a decision that has haunted me for many, many moons. (Luckily, she was adopted by two Doctors that adored her and had the means to care for her) She too was premmie and required surgeries and meds) God works in mysterious ways!I am now in my early 40's and finally can pursue my goals and visions. The earlier years?- they were mostly survival mode and self destruct mode- and I balanced them like a tight wire!! I am now in college studyin for my Masters in Alternative Medicine and FINALLY LIVING FOR ME!!! Don't get me wrong, I never regret my son, I love him and we've been through a lot of stuff. But sometimes I wonder- what would my life be like if I started college out of high school??? So be responsible with your sex life and be SURE you BOTH are READY- just in case you get a SURPRISE!!! If you are NOT ready- USE PROTECTION and enjoy your youth!!!;)
    1111healer 106 Replies
    • January 7, 2007
    • 06:43 AM
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  • Wow.. im amazed at the similarities between myself and the last poster healer. Im almost 36 yrs and have had two children, both shouldnt have beens as I was using different forms of birth control but both failed (for me with the first, it was a bursted condom and with the second child, I had an copper IUD in at the time), while still in my teens. My second child (a girl) was born with problems (a birth defect). I had to raise children alone. Im only now really getting a chance at my dreams after my children are basically all nearly grown up.. I went to college where I was doing a 4 yr diploma in Naturopathy (Alternative Medicine). (its all fallen throu for me thou as Ive now got a serious illness..so those dreams Ive had to let go of once again). Best luck to Healer. ................................................... I too are wondering how young some of the other posters were in response to your query. Pregnancy can happen very easily... (even when one is taking precautions like healer and i did). Things like withdrawing before one ***s is very unsafe as there can be sperm in the precum ..or already in the system if one **m a little earlier!!!. If you are going to do things like that you'd best be prepared for pregnancy.
    taniaaust1 2267 Replies
    • January 7, 2007
    • 08:06 AM
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  • Oh wow! Look at the irony there! Please for your own sake, tell us what's going on with YOUR HEALTH. Why do you believe that you have to GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAMS??? Is this something that YOU TRULY BELIEVE OR just WHAT APPEARS REAL AND WHAT THE MDs are TELLING YOU??? I honestly feel that GOD, the UNIVERSE, whichever works for you- gives us tests in our lifetime and remember WHATEVER DOESN'T KILL YOU-MAKES YOU STRONGER!!! This is sooo true. I've been MISDIAGNOSED SOO MANY TIMES OR MDs have told me I should have been dead by now or at the very least on PERMANENT DISABILITY!!! (Diagnosed w/ chronic fatigue AND fibro in 1992. Other "little things" along the way. lol Everything I have BEEN THROUGH WILL MAKE ME A BETTER PHYSICIAN FOR MY PATIENTS!!! (I WILL BE a Licensed Acupuncture Physician and herbalist in 2009! Have you read Lois Hays book on "why we don't heal"? Excellent read. ALSO-WHAT WE TRULY BELIEVE WILL BE EXPRESSED THROUGH US. Have you even tried acupuncture? It addresses the PYSCHO/SPIRITUAL ASPECT OF DISEASE as it presents and manifests itself in THE PHYSICAL FORM. Whatever your DIS-EASE OR DIS-HARMONY IS-THERE ARE SOLUTIONS OUT THERE. METAPHYSICALLY SPEAKING- EVERYTHING WE EXPERIENCE-WE CREATE, PROMOTE OR ALLOW on some level. Meditate and see what YOU RESONATE WITH. WELLNESS? ILLNESS? Some of the BEST healers are ones that have been through NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCES OR PERSONAL CHALLENGES. Watch what you put in your head because your subconscoius mind WILL ACCOMODATE YOU IF YOU BELIEVE YOU ARE ILL AND CREATE CHEMICALS, HORMONES, ETC TO FACILITATE THAT!!!! uSE YOUR MIND INSTEAD TO BE WELL. One one the tricks I used when I was bad with CFS was- I said I had CURRENT fatigue syndrome. not CHRONIC!i TOOK ALOT OF THE POWER AWAY FROM THE DIS-EASE BY DOING THAT. I MINIMIZED IT AND EVENTUALLY- IT NO LONGER EXISTED. ALL TESTS CAME BACK GOOD! :rolleyes: YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR REALITY BY CHANGING YOUR THINKING!!! IF YOU ARE REALLY AN ALTERNATIVE HEALER- PHYSICIAN- HEAL THYSELF!!! ENERGY HEALING IS ALSO QUITE USEFUL WITH US HEALER TYPES!!! DON'T GIVE UP!!! NAMASTE'~~kEEP US POSTED.
    1111healer 106 Replies
    • January 7, 2007
    • 06:26 PM
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  • I can't even believe the first response to your question. If you don't know what you are talking about, DON"T RESPOND!!! The answear to your question is... YES!!!! you can and probably will get pregnant if you keep it up.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 8, 2007
    • 06:19 AM
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  • @_@ if you have sex then an hour later do it again, and never clean anythin you WILL NOT get pregnant. Me and my girl friend went out for 2+ years and not once did we use a condom. no birth control no anything, i dont believe in it personally, the pills will kill you. and condems dont allow me to get eroused. and Pre-**m is a word guys use to sound more masculine when they prematurejaculate @_@ - Tell your boyfriend, to practice holding in his PEE next time he has to pee and it will stregthen his muscle, which will allow him to hold his load longer @_@ GLz
    JadedKarma 4 Replies
    • January 9, 2007
    • 10:39 PM
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  • That's the most adolescent advice yet!!How old are you? 20 something?:confused: I hope it works for you- because anyone that is that naive DOESN'T NEED TO REPRODUCE. It takes 1 sperm out a million to FERTILIZE AN EGG!! It's easier if the sperm is "further up in the canal", but many a baby has been born from THE PULL OUT EARLY METHOD. ALSO, HEPATITiS C AND STD'S ARE PREVALENT IN THIS COUNTRY (CHECK THE STATISTICS) LIKE 1:6 NOW.Pulling out is as foolish as no protection. You do that too, right? Good luck with your gambling habit!!! What do you think your odds are for FATHERHOOD??? or STD/HIV??? :eek: We just treated a patient recently and discovered he had HEP C. He swore up and down they were "only with each other--EVER" blah,blah, blah. Well, come to find out, she was UNFAITHFUL AND LIED AND GAVE HIM HEPATITIS W/ A SIDE DISH OF HERPES. Good thing he is already a user of acupuncture and herbs because his immune response is gonna take a BIG DIVE. TWO LIFETIME INCURABLE DISEASES ALL ROLLED INTO ONE!!! IF THAT AIN'T LOVE!---MAKE BETTER CHOICES.---
    1111healer 106 Replies
    • January 9, 2007
    • 11:55 PM
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  • @_@ if you have sex then an hour later do it again, and never clean anythin you WILL NOT get pregnant. Me and my girl friend went out for 2+ years and not once did we use a condom. no birth control no anything, i dont believe in it personally, the pills will kill you. and condems dont allow me to get eroused. and Pre-**m is a word guys use to sound more masculine when they prematurejaculate @_@ - Tell your boyfriend, to practice holding in his PEE next time he has to pee and it will stregthen his muscle, which will allow him to hold his load longer @_@ GLz What is wrong with you!- I bet you have had a few STDs already. Don't give young girls advice. You are a big part of the reason why there are so many single mothers struggling out there and why HIV is on the rise again.
    pumibel 42 Replies
    • February 11, 2007
    • 03:21 AM
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  • I think the way it works is that during sex the sperm is ejaculated into the uterus when he orgasms. If he pulled out before this orgasm, I don't believe you can get pregnant.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • February 11, 2007
    • 04:18 AM
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  • Although I am a guy, I have some input on this...Yes... you can get pregnant when not using a contraceptive of some form, no matter if he pulled out or not. "Pre-**m" is not premature ejaculation, it is a slight secretion of semen caused by arousal. Yes, it can get you pregnant, and no, you wont know if it happend and neither would he because you dont feel it when it does.Now... do not get stressed out... mainly (from experience) can cause signs of pregnancy such as missed periods, etc, etc...I have had unprotected intercourse with my wife shortly after we had protected intercourse, without wiping off or anything (heat of the moment) and I pulled out before it ended, and she did not get pregnant.Whether you use a contraceptive or not, pregnancy can occur. Many that have been on the pill, used condoms, so on, so on, have gotten pregnant. No, I'm not trying to say that you should not have sex, but with that choice comes responsibilty.Do yourself a favor if you stay sexually active, and protect yourself. Dont always assume your bf will be responsible and use something or stand by your side if he doesnt. Take responsibility and respect yourself enough to protect yourself.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • February 12, 2007
    • 05:45 AM
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  • Wow, some of the things people say when the dont know what they are talking about... Sex, whether protected or not, can cause pregnancy. Pre-mature Ejaculation and "pre-**m" are to different things such as the previous poster pointed out. Fear and stress can cause symptoms of pregnancy as well, so do not stress out. Are you pregnant? Not extremely likely (and doubtful), but possible. Sex is a big responcibility. If you are not ready to take on what could happen, then I suggest you not stay sexually active. If you are prepared for those things that could happen, and decide to stay sexually active, protect yourself. Dont always leave that up to us guys... sometimes we dont think all that clearly in the heat of the moment... (which goes both ways i know)... and dont think it makes you any less of a person to take charge and protect yourself, or to say no when your bf doesnt want to use something... -AcId-
    AcIdBuRn02ZTS 9 Replies
    • February 12, 2007
    • 06:12 AM
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  • just to point something out the same thing happened to me about 10 years ago,the result....my son aaron.so yes you can get pregnant this way i am living proof.take extra precautions,be safe and sensible.it is very hard being a young mum.i am not having a go i just wouldnt want you to go through what i went through.god bless and take care.mistakes are easy to make once...
    rebeccamc 40 Replies
    • February 18, 2007
    • 03:07 PM
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  • of course you can,, small chances.. but it is possible.be care full next time. use a condom.
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  • Simply put- pulling out is not birth control. Pre-ejaculate (pre-come), basically semen released before the actual orgasm, is secreted during the early stages of sexual activity and arousal and can not only get you pregnant, but also transmit diseases like HIV. Use a condom.
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  • ok i got ocd and it really sucks but i have no idea how to ge help or..tell my parents what do i do?
    Anonymous 42789 Replies Flag this Response
  • There is a risk although it's small. If you feel you need support and can tell your parents, do so. If they won't support you, you might want to find someone else to talk to. A doctor, perhaps, or a counselling phone line/e-mail service such as the Samaritans. (See http://www.befrienders.org/ for information by country)It's possible to get emergency contraception (which will destroy the fertilised cells) up to 3 days after sex, if you feel comfortable doing so.Additionally, take a pregnancy test if you miss your period. These are readily available in many countries, but make sure you get one from a reputable shop. Take more than one to ensure results are accurate. The BBC has a good website: http://www.bbc.co.uk/parenting/having_a_baby/pregnancy_signs.shtmlIn the meantime, don't drink alcohol until you know you aren't pregnant, and be more careful in the future!
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  • So me & my boyfriend had sex and we used a condom and everything. First we were on the couch then moved to the floor then up against the couch.Well once he moved up against the couch i felt the condom coming off and thats when we stopped. But what i want to know is is the "pre-**m" got out and touched down in the areas is there a really strong possiblity that i could get pregnant?I know you can get pregnant from either one (the pre and the real one) but i just wanna know if there is a good possility because i kinda thought it would die either trying to get to the egg or if it was to low on the area.But the thing is also when i was putting his penis in the hole while on the floor i didnt really feel it coming off but then again i could have been mistaken.Help
    Anonymous 42789 Replies Flag this Response
  • Oh My God! Why can't you kids be more responsible with your lives???!! Educate yourselves about sex BEFORE you screw around. Simple as that.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies Flag this Response
  • A lot of men don't know how to use a condom properly, so it is upon the female to become educated. Your local Planned Parenthood will show you how, or the STD clinic. The man needs to pinch off the top as he rolls it down snuggly. Do not ever think that they can put it on correctly. Look at it, or just do it for them. He didn't put it on right. If a person is not willing to be responsible with sex, then just don't do it. You'll live.
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