Hi, I'm new to the boards. Let me get right down to it, 2 weeks ago I went to a strip club and I got a lap dance. Now nothing untoward happened, all my clothes remained on, however at certain points she was grinding quite hard, leaving a slight "residue" on my jeans. She also kissed me once, but I told her to stop. Now I have been freaking out about herpes. She had no sores visible on her mouth, so I do not know if she had it. I thought I was having some symptoms this week, but those seem to have been caused by the Welbutrin I just started taking a week ago. I checked my area frequently and there does not seem to be any change, no rash etc. I itch like normal. I did have a small cold sore on my lip, but it went away. I was just wondering if there was any way I could have gotten herpes? I'm losing my mind, and I'm the type of person who cannot focus on anything else. I have went to the doc, but not test. I know I know, but thats even more nerve racking. I just need some advice! Thank you for any help you can provide.