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I'm an idiot that needs help about possible herpes!

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  • Posted By: ConcernedIdiot
  • November 15, 2008
  • 00:58 AM

Hi, I'm new to the boards. Let me get right down to it, 2 weeks ago I went to a strip club and I got a lap dance. Now nothing untoward happened, all my clothes remained on, however at certain points she was grinding quite hard, leaving a slight "residue" on my jeans. She also kissed me once, but I told her to stop. Now I have been freaking out about herpes. She had no sores visible on her mouth, so I do not know if she had it. I thought I was having some symptoms this week, but those seem to have been caused by the Welbutrin I just started taking a week ago. I checked my area frequently and there does not seem to be any change, no rash etc. I itch like normal. I did have a small cold sore on my lip, but it went away. I was just wondering if there was any way I could have gotten herpes? I'm losing my mind, and I'm the type of person who cannot focus on anything else. I have went to the doc, but not test. I know I know, but thats even more nerve racking. I just need some advice! Thank you for any help you can provide.

ConcernedIdiot

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  • Probably nothing to worry about at all. Did she have blisters on her lips...if you had a cold sore, sounds like you already have herpes and maybe you gave it to her, anyway. You can always get a blood test. Check this out: http://www.herpes-coldsores.com/messageforum/
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies
    • November 15, 2008
    • 02:19 AM
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  • Thanks! I have had cold sores before, as well as canker sores, but I was thinking full blown Herpes simplex 2, I believe it is called. No she didnt seem to have any blisters, it was dark, but I'm sure I would have noticed any gross sores, I was not drunk. Thanks again for the link, I'm quite relieved. I've had a couple of cold/canker sores possibly show up today, but I think its because of stress.
    ConcernedIdiot 1 Replies
    • November 15, 2008
    • 02:27 AM
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  • No, you need skin to skin contact and not skin to levi contact. Relax.
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies
    • November 15, 2008
    • 02:32 AM
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