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I am Afraid to having sex

Posted In: Sexual conditions 7 Replies
  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • May 13, 2011
  • 09:46 AM

Hi I am 24 years married girl its 6 months over of my marriage but till yet there is no physical relation between me and my husband .I am interest to having sex and my husband too but when we came to climax i am very afraid and i ask my husband to stop. i am having of fear of pain during sex
pls guide me i want to give my husband all the happiness and love

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  • Don't worry about that pain it happened only once in life, Watch adult movie with your husband, you will surely forgot about pain and will fall in fun and enjoy of sex.
    colepath 2 Replies Flag this Response
  • Watch a adult movie with your husband , Is perfect solution of your problem
    colepath 2 Replies Flag this Response
  • Im wondering why you are so afraid that there will be pain when climaxing??? has another hurt you when they climaxed? or have you had pain when you got close to a climax? or ones who have been sexually assulted or raped may get pain due to psychological reasons. ..... I know with me at times my partner has to be more gentlier at times when my excitment builds as I can become more sensitive, sometimes overly sensitive, if he's directly stimulating the area (direct stimulation on the cliterous (sorry I cant spell it) can get painful to many.If its something like that which is causing your fear you need to communicate with your partner more and just tell him to go gentler. Sounds like you need to do something as being married for 6mths and not having sex.. I wouldnt think would be all that good for a relationship. That sounds serious enough to be seeking some professional help either something like CBT if its an issue to do with your thoughts or some other therapy if its something else wrong eg a physical issue of some kind..
    taniaaust1 2267 Replies Flag this Response
  • There is a first time for everything and it is better you make a beginning than worry about all those trivial things. There is pleasure in that pain and bleeding also. The first experience is one which you will remember for a lifetime.
    gloriakia 1 Replies Flag this Response
  • you may try to use some sexual pills like viagra for women - lovegra. it will help you to feel much more sexual desire and satisfaction.
    Adam8080 8 Replies Flag this Response
  • It is a variant to try some sexual pills and watch some adult films that can entice sexual desire. Don't worry it is no scary...
    OpolkoRus 1 Replies Flag this Response
  • Why are you afraid of sex???? Is it just because of that little pain during the initial time???? That pain is worth anything my dear and if you are afraid of that little pain which gives you the best pleasure of your life then I'm afraid that how would you live your whole life without facing any pain? Didn't you hear "NO PAIN NO GAIN"!!!!
    willoconner 3 Replies
    • November 30, 2013
    • 10:35 AM
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