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Female Sexual Disfunction

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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • March 17, 2007
  • 00:23 AM

Hi everyone, I was wondering if someone could help me with this problem I have, it is very troublesome to me. I am a healthy 19 year old girl and I do not feel anything from penetration during sexual intercourse. Because I do not get arousal from penetration this messes up the entire sex act for me, any arousal that I felt before is deminished. I do have depression but I have no problem becoming sexually aroused. Is there anyone out there who can tell me if there is some type of cure for this. I have read that there are some women who do not get arousal from penetration but I really want to know if there is a way to remedy this. I can reach orgasm from self clitoral stimulation (tmi, I know, I'm sorry) but just not through penetration. I feel that if I please myself during sex this will make my partner feel insecure.Please someone help. Also I'm guessing this is from lack of lubrication but I also start to feel pain during sex. This causes me so much hurt. My partner feels as though he cannot please me and he tries everything he can. Some of you may say that this is because I have not found the right guy but I assure you this is not true. My partner does arouse me when i think of him, but while in the act, knowing I will not get arousal from penetration ruins the experience for me.

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  • beleive me if you please yourself during sex your patner will love it he will think your so turned on by him that you had to touch yourself im a man and thats hot
    Anonymous 42789 Replies Flag this Response
  • From our experience it seem that there are positions which the male gets a lot of simulation, but the female does not. Have you tried being on top facing him while he lies down? Also try having him move up to the CAT position, like missionary but have him position his hips higher up. Lube really makes a difference on the transfer of feelings, try putting some KY Ultra Gel on him upfront. I hope these ideas help.
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  • I would try different positions. A lot of people masturbate, no need to be shy about that. I never experienced an orgasm with someone else until I tried having sex on top of my partner with him on the bottom. I would try sprucing it up and lots of other things that may help such as a way to stimulate your clitoris during sex... I think they make lots of little rings for it.
    R0xyg4l 22 Replies Flag this Response
  • hi! seems like we're having same problem here. i'm 21 and i didn't get into the climax when we have sex. but i got aroused before during our early years. but now, he's the only one having the satisfaction. i wonder why is it happenning to us. i am thinking that i am already immune of the feeling of arousal. i hope someone can help us. and also, i haven't get pregnant since then. i am really worried!
    jyannah15 4 Replies Flag this Response
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