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female orgasm during sex

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  • Posted By: abubakarshayau
  • March 13, 2007
  • 09:26 AM

how will one knows if his wife is having orgasm during sex,can any experiece woman tell me about it pls, and how will i make her to get it in better way

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  • Hello, I am a young woman and have regular multiples, so I should be able to help! When she's close to coming, her vagina will contract every now and then. When she actually comes, the contracts will be more frequent and longer lasting. You may not notice this that much when you are having sex, but if you use your fingers, you will notice it! She may even ejaculate! And she will probably curl her toes up or maybe have to squeeze something. Pay attention to the whole area (you know where) rather than one. The G spot is on the front wall of the vagina, ...so stick you fingers up there and rub! Also, oral is great on the clitoris! Also, good positions to make her come are to have her sit on you facing away from you (a lot of women do not come because they are uncomfortable with their bodies, so she can't see you looking at her) and get her to lean forward as she rocks (her clitoris will rub on your testicles, so keep your legs closed). - To have an orgasm through clitoris and because a man's penis is rubbing against your G-spot is just perfect! Also one that always gets me moaning is neal down with your legs open, she should be laid down. You can either have her legs around your neck (so you can feel them) or have her legs over your arms and use this as a way to pull her towards you while you thrust.I hope I helped here. But if your missus has a problem with coming, it will probably be due to her not being comfortable with her body, ...unsure how to deal with this, but you could use a blind fold?!
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  • The emotional side is also very important. First and foremost communicate (i.e. talk about your lives, dreams, future, worries, tell her that you love her, tell her what you love about her). Start doing this. Then the next month start talking to her about what she likes in bed, what needs in this relationship, and also tell her what you need. Then, the third month, ask her if she wants to do things like dancing (dancing classes with you as a partner), having a common hobby, go hiking with her, go to the movies with her, go to a concert with her, clean your house together, make a dinner together, just do more things together that will a. create sexual tension between the two of you, b. show that you want to help her with her responsibilities around the house. If you help her, I'm sure you can ask her to help you with some stuff as well, so don't worry that you don't have all the time in the world to clean and cook. Sex is mainly psychological, but half the time it's not because women don't feel good about themselves. A woman can be overweight and feel good about herself, but women also need men to show them that women should feel good about their own men. Men are more easily aroused just by looking at women, maybe because after all women are the beautiful sex. Most guys won't have that same effect on women. Have you ever seen beautiful women with ugly guys? These guys have the women's emotional side working pretty well, so don't be mistaken that those women are aroused just by the fact the men are naked and want to have sex with them. Good luck to all you guys reading, and I wish all the women will be able to satisfy their needs soon.
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  • the best way tp make it better for her is to ask her to tell you or show you what she likes best. this is also a great way to break down any barriers with communictaion or whatever. every woman is different so i guess its just trial and error until you ifnd out whats best.
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