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cant have sex more than once at a time

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  • Posted By: abubakarshayau
  • March 12, 2007
  • 04:13 PM

i am 41yrs old and i love having sex with my wife about 3-4 times a week, but my problem is that i can hardly have sex with her more than once at a go. may penis always go down immediately i have sex with her, if i want to repeat the act i cannot get erection on time.
pls can someoe help me on what to do to have sex more than once at a time,

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  • Go to the doctor and get some medication for this
    Anonymous 42789 Replies Flag this Response
  • There are meds for this go see your doctor
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  • i have seen my doctor about this but was told that iam healthy and there is no problem, i just someone who has similar problem to tell me a practical solution
    abubakarshayau 1 Replies Flag this Response
  • sounds like a case of geting older it happens to everyone as we get older our bodies slow down a bit and it does suck the males body produces less testosterone you can counter act this by daily excersise and eating a well balanced diet (no fast food) :(
    Anonymous 42789 Replies Flag this Response
  • You don't need meds for this, this is normal. What you have to do is satidfy her first and then yourself. That way, you won't have to do it twice.
    KnowSUMthings 153 Replies Flag this Response
  • yeah sounds pretty normal I say just keep trying:)
    wallarookiller 12 Replies Flag this Response
  • im 18 and i have that problem myself so it isn't the age so i would like an answer also
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 16, 2009
    • 06:31 PM
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  • Hopefully, you have had your prostate exam, etc...they do write RXs for Viagra, you know...
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies
    • January 17, 2009
    • 04:01 AM
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  • i am 41yrs old and i love having sex with my wife about 3-4 times a week, but my problem is that i can hardly have sex with her more than once at a go. may penis always go down immediately i have sex with her, if i want to repeat the act i cannot get erection on time.pls can someoe help me on what to do to have sex more than once at a time, Hi abubakarshayau, You are running into the refractory period, "In sexuality, the refractory period is the recovery phase after orgasm during which it is physiologically impossible for an individual to have additional orgasms. It is also sometimes defined as "the time immediately following orgasm during which a man cannot achieve an erection." The penis may be hypersensitive and further sexual stimulation may even feel painful during this time frame." From Wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Refractory_period_(sex) So now you know what the problem is, for almost all men in the world.The solution is extremely simple, don't ejaculate. Learn ejaculation control and you can go for hours and hours, until your lady has had hours of orgasm and is all tuckered out. It takes some practice but it is fun to practice and not difficult to learn.
    Freddd 3576 Replies
    • January 17, 2009
    • 10:41 PM
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  • This is perfectly normal, even as a woman, I don't feel like continuing with sex after an orgasm but I can, however it's not pleasurable anymore because I've reached my saturation point. Like someone already mentioned, make sure she comes first and is happy about her orgasm, that would you wouldn't have to do it immediately. Is your wife being pushy about doing it all over again. In my 5 year old relation with my husband, we have only had two consequence intercourses ONCE and I'm totally ok with that and am sure he is too.
    Helene99 23 Replies
    • January 21, 2009
    • 02:08 PM
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