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Cant have sex! Help!

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  • Posted By: alissa731
  • May 23, 2010
  • 04:01 PM

Hi i am 17 years old, i will be 18 in less than two months and my boyfriend is 19. We have been going out for two years and are both virgins and we have tried to have sex like 5 times and he cant put it in because it hurts me way too much, like the other day he got the furthest ever and it hurt so bad i started crying, so we stopped because he said he never wanted me to cry and i asked him if i was defective and he doesnt think i am, he thinks i am just nervous and so do i but, i dont know! Is there something wrong with my vagina or am i just nervous and its all in my head or just tensing up to make it hurt? Please help! :(

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  • Hi i am 17 years old, i will be 18 in less than two months and my boyfriend is 19. We have been going out for two years and are both virgins and we have tried to have sex like 5 times and he cant put it in because it hurts me way too much, like the other day he got the furthest ever and it hurt so bad i started crying, so we stopped because he said he never wanted me to cry and i asked him if i was defective and he doesnt think i am, he thinks i am just nervous and so do i but, i dont know! Is there something wrong with my vagina or am i just nervous and its all in my head or just tensing up to make it hurt? Please help! :(Hon, you need to wait for marriage to have intercourse and you will be relaxed and find sex more enjoyable! And safer!
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • November 8, 2010
    • 04:38 PM
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  • Sounds like you have a small hymen. Some women need an operation to make the hymen large enough for penetration. Are you able to insert tampons or does it just hurt with penal penetration?
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • December 5, 2010
    • 03:47 AM
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