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Cannot feel pleasure in the genital region.

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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • June 6, 2011
  • 11:56 PM

I cannot feel sexual pleasure on my penis, testicles or even anus. Its a very strange/annoying issue. Its worst on the head of my penis. The shaft, while insensitive, is more sensitive than the head and sometimes I am unable to reach an orgasm despite having safe, unprotected sex (monogamous relationship). I am able to achieve an erection with or without stimulation, if I lube my hand up and rub it on my head however, I am able to feel pleasure though the front and top of my head are more sensitive than the back of my head. Its to the point where I am unable to enjoy sex. Its not just this partner either, its been a problem across relationships for years. I had sex with a girl and it was the most pleasurable thing I've ever experienced. and again with two other girls I've felt the same thing then suddenly poof, the ability to feel sex is gone. Ironically/strangely, the occasions where I could feel it with the exception of one were all one night stands and I wore condoms with all of them and still it felt better than any of the long term relationships I've had. I've masturbated since I was a teen and may be a victim of 'death grip' but my 'practices' have been the same through out.... I don't know what to do.

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  • I've felt the same thing then suddenly poof, the ability to feel sex is gone. Ironically/strangely, the occasions where I could feel it with the exception of one were all one night stands and I wore condoms with all of them and still it felt better than any of the long term relationships I've had. Good sex isnt just to do with the feel but also how we are thinking. As at certain times it is better for you eg one night stands... there sounds to be an issue with your thinking. Maybe some psychological therapy eg CBT could help.
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