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Bleeding and pain after lots of sex.....

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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • January 17, 2007
  • 09:19 PM

On Saturday I had sex with my boyfriend 4 times over a period of about 4 hours, and then had sex again on Sunday evening, with lots of other sexual activity such as oral sex and him using his fingers on my clitoris and inside me.

On Tuesday I noticed blood in my underwear that was a very dark brown colour, and today I have blood again but it is a very dark brown colour. I understand that red would suggest fresh blood.

Also on Monday it hurt like ***l going to the toilet and this has continued through until now, the pain has lessened as the days have gone by but still sore and can still feel the pain at certain times when I am walking around.

Part of me feels that this is due to slightly drunken sex, and being slightly greedy in having sex so often and maybe not being lubricated enough. I am due to see him this weekend and wonder whether I should see him equipped with a tube of JY Jelly or cancel altogether...?

Anyone with advice or similar situation?

Thanks all :o)

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  • Hello...Did you have rough sex? That would explain the outter tenderness as well as the dark blood. If he is ...umm... 'thumping' hard enough it may have created a disturbance to your uterus...So expecially if you are at all nearing your period you could have blood leakage. If you find you are healing well and properly, you're both willing, ready and able participants (and have looked after all the protection and STD conversations and concerns) ..I say bring yourself a ton of different lubes and products which you like, and go for it! I would FOR SURE bring it to his attention that you were very tender for several days, perhaps he need to be a little more gentle with his tongue or face. Just out of general concern..I HAVE TO say..if you are at all uncertain..get checked!R :)
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    • January 17, 2007
    • 10:55 PM
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