I'm 18, and have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and we are going to start having sex, and I was wondering which birth control method would be better, the patch or the Nuva Ring?
I have really irregular periods and bad PMS, so I was wondering which one helps more with that issue.
Also, we tried to have sex recently for the first time (using a condom), but he couldn't get more than a little inside me without it hurting REALLY BAD. I know my hymen isn't an issue anymore, as I have been using tampons forever and have had oral and whatnot, and I'm pretty sure I was wet enough...but what can I do? I don't know if I was too tight or not, I don't think I was, but I think lube is my best bet. I was excited too, but maybe lube would help more?
Any answers or thoughts would be appreciated :)