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Help!!!!

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  • Posted By: lberry1986
  • March 21, 2008
  • 09:05 PM

Hey guys!!!

Im really worried and I need so advise!!! I have been w/ my boyfriend for a little over a year and we have had inprotected sex the whole time...the first few months I was on birth control but I got off because of health insurance!! I've never had any symptoms of pregnancy or anything and Im just worried I can't have children but my b/f already has two daughters and his ex wife and ex g/f got pregnant really quick. Im scared since he's shot (LoL) out two babies why cant I get pregnant. I really want a baby and Im so scared that I can't! Maybe I'm just freakin out over nothing. Everything happens for a reason and maybe Im just not ready yet but I just hope thats the case!! Talk to me guys please :confused:

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  • Relax................it took me over two years to get preggers. The more u worry about it the less relaxed u will be, that makes it harder ! actually i know a girl who tryed for 14ys, she had all the tests & everything was alright.....she was just so stressed about it. Then she had a sister who had a tragic accident......& she got pregnant straight away when her mind wasnt on it......since had 4 babbies ! So worrying can stop it happening........sometimes it just takes time ! Hope this helps :) Good luck & have fun !!!
    Tootsie 628 Replies Flag this Response
  • I was with my ex for 5 years, we tried for a baby the whole time but nothing happened. He has a daughter with his ex so I thought it was me with the problem until I got with my current boyfriend. I fell pregnant after just 4 months together (we weren't trying)I 100% agree with Tootsie, you need to relax and don't see yourself as having a problem. Tell yourself and make yourself believe that you can have children, when the time is right! Stop trying so hard and let nature take its course in it's own time and it will happen.
    Summersunshine 12 Replies Flag this Response
  • You know what sweetie? I have been trying on and off though out the years. I started when I was 15 with my ex fiance. It never happend, after two years I did find a new man and I had been on and off of the birth control pill, I started at 16. on and off at 17, a little when I was 18. I am now 19 and have been trying very hard. I will be 20 this year and all my life I have dreamed of having my own little one. But I know in my heart that it's my time and that things happen on their own. It's something that we just can't help. I have had men tell me maybe your not fertile, maybe it's the pill it screwed u up, but everything seems fine. I am carious and am thinking about talking to a care provider/ nurse about it. I know that I never had enough iron in my blood so I started taking prenatal vitamins to risk my chances higher so that way I would be able to become pregnant. I hope it works, don't worry just go with the flow. Take care with love ~Ash~ Too many women worry I will admit I tend to be one of those women. Hehe :)
    Anonymous 42789 Replies Flag this Response
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