My boyfriend fell in love with me when I had another boyfriend 3 years back. I used to block him and pass indirect messages to him that he is not important, and worthless. Time passed and we became good friends, now we're in a serious relationship since almost a year. I'm 29 years old, and he is 30 years old. He has left his town , family and friends 4 years back for work. He feels completely out of place and all alone, we live in the same town now -seperate places- that has mostly rude people. No good people are around to boost his spirits, he keeps on getting wounded by people. He's been a sad person ever since he came to this town, but since 3 years he has been depressed, he was overdosed 2.5 years back and taken to hospital for a stomach wash. His workplace was a total mess, his boss was ignoring him all the time, shouting at him, making him feel worthless and unimportant. He believes that now, life continuously -through me, his relatives, and through work- gave him messages that he is not important. Now he believes that, he tells me he is not a human being, he is nothing, he is dead, he doesn't deserve to be happy. I know he is going through a lot of pain, but I just don't know what to do. I try to take him out jogging, going to movies, taking a ride, whenever we could (minimum once a week), but this just doesn't seem enuff to give him enuff energy to go on or to hold on to something. I am so worried about him, he is such a nice person, but I don't know how to help him. When we are out, sometimes he jokes and laughs, but the next moment he can just go sad again. He has feelings of revenge, he constantly tells me he will hurt people from now on, and will revenge from all people. I tell him how important, special and unique he is for me, he tells me he doesn't know. The worst part is that I offered to him to go to a psychiatrist, I even found a doctor to go to, I just need a green light from him to go ahead, but he tells me he won't go and see a doctor. Since six months he's been telling me he wants to die, and that if I really loved him I had to pray to God to take his soul. I am so much worried about him, and want to take him out of this ***l. Please advice. What should I do?Reply Follow This Thread Stop Following This Thread Flag this Discussion
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