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way to jelous

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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • January 4, 2007
  • 01:47 PM

I am married, and now that I think of since the begining my partner has been very possesive regarding were I go what I do and always very suspisous about me, he belives I am always cheating on him, it is now gotten so terrible that he thinks that when we go out for dinner instead of looking to him right in his face I am looking at the man in the table behind him! he makes up these stories that I am unfaithful, and after a while he really belives them! i try to make him sure they are not true but still he does not belive me he belives only what he makes up!
what can I do?

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  • what does he eat?
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 4, 2007
    • 06:54 PM
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  • You can get in a time machine and not marry a psycho.
    Non Servium 85 Replies
    • January 5, 2007
    • 01:53 AM
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  • Pao, You're right, he's being possessive, and he has it in his mind that whenyou're not where he can see you, you're messin' around. You said that youtried to tell him his suspicions were unwarranted but he doesn't believe you.You should be real careful about this. Jealousy makes once stable people, emotional, unpredictable and dangerous. I've seen it first hand, if he refusesto believe you and keeps letting his mind imagine somethings goin' on whenthere's nothing goin' on...it will never stop. I hope you can tell when it's timeto get away from him, when and if you do, make sure there are people to helpyou. He's not goin' to be a happy camper. Remember...He wants to possessyou and keep you where he knows your not doing nothin'. Please be careful,think things through before any major decisions, make sure you're safe! !
    remedy13 24 Replies
    • January 5, 2007
    • 04:13 AM
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  • Pao, You're right, he's being possessive, and he has it in his mind that whenyou're not where he can see you, you're messin' around. You said that youtried to tell him his suspicions were unwarranted but he doesn't believe you.You should be real careful about this. Jealousy makes once stable people, emotional, unpredictable and dangerous. I've seen it first hand, if he refusesto believe you and keeps letting his mind imagine somethings goin' on whenthere's nothing goin' on...it will never stop. I hope you can tell when it's timeto get away from him, when and if you do, make sure there are people to helpyou. He's not goin' to be a happy camper. Remember...He wants to possessyou and keep you where he knows your not doing nothin'. Please be careful,think things through before any major decisions, make sure you're safe! !So true-you better make sure he has no weapons. A guy killed his gf's mother because he was jealous and shot the gf on her face.She did not died but her life stopped for years, cause she did not have a face. It was awful.Here where I live, a guy sat his wife on fire at the cell phone store where she worked. She did not died but it is so painful just to see her.Don't let domestic violence get to you.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 5, 2007
    • 04:36 AM
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