im frm singapore n d problem happened wen i was in a new environment in polytechnic. i used to have a grp of frens who were sensitive n cared for each othr reali well, we also praised n support each othr all d time. bt then when we were separated in to dif schs, i met n socialise wif a new grp who was totally different. they were more aggressive n rough in their socialising n jokes, sometimes i jus felt like leavin the grp n join a dif one bt i did nt have d heart to do so. i decided to b strg n face it so i faked as if i wasnt hurt whenever the jokes were at me. i acted like it was normal, jus like hw it was to d othrs bt i came home n jus vent my anger on smthg. it went on n d nxt yr, we gt separated n went into dif classes. thr i am again in a new grp bt d prob is that EVERYTIME I MOVE INTO A NEW GROUP, I CHANGE MY CHARACTER TO SUIT THEM. it was at a time dat i jus shouted that i wanted to be myself. i see people who had so much confidence in dem such that theyre d ones who attract people into their social grps rather than dem joining othrs. i wanted to be like dem bt i had no confidence. i was paranoid after all dat i went thru. getting praised at ferst makin me feel so much confidence n suddenly gettin picked on(jokes) then. i dont know wad to do. i want to be myself bt i cant rmbr wad my character was after all d faking. im interested in thgs that i sometimes feel embarassed to show people wad it is. wad can i do to have more confidence? wad steps or actions can be taken to make me become less paranoid n BE MYSELF? i hope u can help...Reply Follow This Thread Stop Following This Thread Flag this Discussion
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