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does anyone feel the way i do?

Posted In: Mental conditions 13 Replies
  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • September 16, 2006
  • 04:28 AM

all my life i have been told there is something wrong with me ,because i dont have friendsand i dont know who i am i also have this thing where i pull out my hair if anybody who reads this has the sme problems i do please write me back or if you have edvise:)

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  • i had /have the same problem. i need you to write back i like to write more but im not sure what to write................................................
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • September 19, 2006
    • 07:49 PM
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  • I do too. Please email me: eileenprince @ sbcglobal .net
    frenchpastry 1 Replies
    • January 21, 2007
    • 09:10 AM
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  • the fact that you have no friends reflects only on the values of those around you.people without friends are the hinge of the worlds goodness.many people who think they have friends find out too late that they do not.i hope all the contributors here may come to a way of supporting each other.may i suggest though a practical and moral basis for you?(please forgive my presumption but i would like it to work out well for you.)please ,will none of you think of friendship as something you consume ,or recieve.,but as something which you produce,and concentrate on being a friend rather than having one.build yourselves as people ,educate yourselves ,eliminate self pity above all.it is a grand ambition to wish to become a friend.if you dont have much experience of it,you will have to train.thank you !watching you find each other has been a lovely experience.good luck and dont underestimate the scale of what you have taken on.one last tip: nothing is so attractive to others as the sight of an independent happy person working hard at something interesting.become that person!it would be lovely to learn how you get on in this .
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 24, 2007
    • 06:18 PM
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  • all my life i have been told there is something wrong with me ,because i dont have friendsand i dont know who i am i also have this thing where i pull out my hair if anybody who reads this has the sme problems i do please write me back or if you have edvise:)i can help you
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 28, 2007
    • 09:32 PM
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  • all my life i have been told there is something wrong with me ,because i dont have friendsand i dont know who i am i also have this thing where i pull out my hair if anybody who reads this has the sme problems i do please write me back or if you have edvise:)I also have the same problem. I would like to know if you have found help.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 30, 2007
    • 04:07 PM
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  • evil is real,then.do not take this advice.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • February 5, 2007
    • 10:04 PM
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  • omg. don't kill yourself
    kreativekat21 1 Replies
    • February 13, 2007
    • 00:46 AM
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  • yes ,thank god this wicked post has been removed.loneliness is perhaps the most human experience.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • February 14, 2007
    • 08:03 PM
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  • This is not just meant for the poster of this thread, but anyone who has the same issue:I have next to no friends. I have come to the conclusion that it is because I have a repellent aura about me. I mean I act nice, try to be nice, but I am not a people magnet.I think one has to be thinking about the positive in order to achieve a goal.Here's what I mean. I too would like more friends. I set got into a mindset, and this was it:I need to stop being repellent.This makes sense, no? No. It doesn't. Even though it has good intentions, the idea is centered around a negative fact or thought: I am repellent. In order to be effective, the thought should flow a bit more like this:I make friends easily.While this may be presently untrue, the mindset will dictate your behavior, and thus attracting the desired goal.This might be difficult to understand, but give it a try.
    WhiskeyClone 5 Replies Flag this Response
  • NO.. most people are normal.. you are what we call a ****r
    Anonymous 42789 Replies Flag this Response
  • NO.. most people are normal.. you are what we call a ****r.Listen. If your so perfect and the sun shines out of your arse (which it obviously doesnt) stop coming to these forums and discouraging people with real issues. Your obviously of better use to society keeping your mouth shut so lets just keep it that way. I'm tired of writing on these forums trying to help people and give them advice, and having people with no brains, or weighted opinion coming on here and just writing whatever they like. Now on a subject more related to the original post. If your not driving away people..then having no friends is not an issue with you..it's a problem with the people your seeking friendship with and often might not have anything to do with you...but more to do with the environment that your in. Now of course like anyone you can change yourself to fit in with people..but that will only leave you confused and burnt out. Its important that you find someone you can be yourself with..and that may mean looking outside your immediate area of school, college, work, or your neighborhood, because your not going to necessarily get along with those people. I really do hope you can find someone!
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  • i dont think you have a repellent aura.theres no need to think about it like that.however it is possible you are making some mistakes.latent anger can frighten people off,for instance,and so can many other things.once you stop thinking of it in magical terms it will tend to fall under your control.four things which most people find irresistible are involvement ,success, .health and happiness.try to become involved positively in some sort of enterprise which will allow you to succeed.build health.study to succeed.cultivate humour.place your emphasis on being a friend rather than wishing to have one.and remember that most people are unfit to be friends......they want somebody to solve their problems for them and be an emotional support. its no good.most of them will break under the slightest pressure.they are not much use,but you should try to help them nonetheless.the best book on cleaning up your act that i know is called "rational emotive therapy ,by albert ellis.i push this a lot because it is so easy to understand,and it deals with all the common personal errors,without off putting jargon.he will bust that aura for you!good luck and please let me know how you get on.
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  • The thing where you pull your hair out could be trichotillomania. I too have no friends and I feel like something is wrong with me (worse than what the doctors have said). If you give me more info I could try to help you figure out what it is.
    kaysharo 1 Replies Flag this Response
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