I have a 22 year old daughter who was sexually abused up until she was 10 years old. As a mother it broke my heart when i found out but it explained a lot of her behaviour at the time. She has always been difficult but lately she has not been rational.I am desperate for answers as she wont go and see a professional I believe that she has borderline personality disorder and if i could find out more about it i could help her which i desperatly want to do.
The reason that i have come to this conclusion is over the last couple of months she had a baby which has been taken into care ( her partner physically abused him) Now any normal mother would kick him to the curb and fight for her baby but she split with him and then 3 weeks later went back to him because she said she cant be alone and if she gets the baby back which i doubt now she feels that she wont be able to rare him on her own.
Every day i get ph calls from her ranging from i want him adopted out to Why wont they give him back?? Her partner has 3 other children that were taken from his last relationship because of abuse & I cant fathom why she is with him?? This is breaking my heart as this is her 2nd child the 1st one is with his paternal gparents as she was only 16 years when she had him & she was far too young even though i tried to tell her she was too young to have a child she never listens to me
She has always had a difficult relationship with her father but if she is in trouble then he is always there He paid $8.000 for a lawyer to fight to have the baby returned to her care but after she went back to her partner he said thats it i tried to help you but if you stay with him then count me out.
They wont allow me to have the baby as Im too old so where is he going to go in foster care its killing me knowing i wont see him grow up
Please can someone help with some informative answers