My husband has had ADD for a long time. He works fine, but at home is a disorganized mess. He obsesses about it, but doesn't fix anything- I try to keep things organized but resent enabling this-
It seems he also drinks to take the edge off- it's not always alot, as he works many hours; we have a business on the side-etc.; but for example- our yard is covered with leaves, a ripped up driveway and he usually tries to do 3 tasks at once, then gets enraged.
I am just curious to know of others who have ADD- is it this bad? he refuses meds- went thru the whole psych thing-I have given up on that.
Thanks for any comments. I really don't understand this, and am very drained.