I tested positive for Chlamydia and two weeks ago my boyfriend had to take antibiotics because one of his testes was swollen and hurt. It was not an STD, it was a cyst. Anyhow, now he is serious about breaking up after 10 yrs because he thinks I cheated!! I have ALWAYS been faithful, I never cheated and I believe him when he says he never cheated on me. Some people think I am crazy for believing him, but I can't help it. I went and got retested today and am currently waiting for the results. I am so hurt that he thinks I cheated. I don't know what to do, I am so cried out and it seems like he doesn't care. Just yesterday we were talking about our wedding and today it's, "the proof is in the pudding, you cheated!" I don't know what to do, he doesnt want to talk to me, let alone look at this forum that "is filled with fantastic lies"
I envy the couples here that moved beyond this, I thought we were strong enough, I guess he wasn't. I am really sad and so sorry I started venting, I know this forum isn't for this. I just wanted to share.