I am a married lady aged 29 years and its been 2 years of marriage.
We dont use contraceptives, its uncomfortable for my husband. SO we kind of have almost never used it. And we have never gotten pregnant too though we have been trying to also.
firstly it was not pregnancy which we wanted cause initially we wanted to enjoy too. i kind of got anxious when he just couldnt use any condoms a nd wouldnt bother to and it dint effect us even on my most fertile days of the month.
secondly, sex has never been great for me, initially i thought it will take time to get better as it was our first time but then it got worse with time.. now both of us dont feel all that excited and if we are its the same.. i dont experience any pleasure at alll..
lastly, my husband ejaculates but too soon, i never feel a thing and the strange part is that i suspect impotence somewhere, coz he isnt too comfortable weith the idea of a doc.. a friend of mine even suggested tight foreskin but i dunno.. really dunno.. i feel extremely frustrated as there is no pleasure in the sex nor am i conceiving.. there is no fun in the relationship too, though he is toooooo sugar coated and sweet i feel there is no passion and we kinda lack something bigtime..
can anyone help here.. do docs read us..