I am afraid I have had some strange chronic urinary track infection or yeast infection or some other odd condition for about 15 years now. About that time I had unprotected sex with a person who, as I later found out, was a huge risk.
My previous girlfriend from 14 to 12 years ago often complained of getting yeast infections after having sex with me. I was assured by doctors I had nothing to do with it.
My wife has been getting yeast infections after having unprotected sex with me for the last 11 years. She sometimes gets urinary track infections, but yeast infections pretty much every time we are having sex unless I am using a condom. Condoms seem to prevent all infections.
Because of this situation my wife and I were separated for a while recently. She was with another man for a few months having unprotected sex almost every day without getting any infection. I was with another woman for a few weeks who could not stand getting yeast infections and was allergic to using condoms.
My wife and I are trying to get back together mostly because our son was not surviving our separation well.
Our relationship will not survive if I don't fix my problem.
I feel slight burning sensation inside my penis and the very tip of it is red and has been for the last 15 years. My genitals often seem to be swollen or inflamed. Cold water seems to help my condition. I have had often ed problems which have started around the same time. I have never had them prior to it. Sometimes I would apply Monistat to my genitals and that would often create a burning sensation.
I had looked for help a few times in the past but the picture of my condition was not as clear as it is now in my mind. I was usually told that nothing was wrong with me and i was simply pushing bacteria into the girl. I am tired of hearing that there is nothing wrong with me and that I should tell the girl to stop blaming me. Now I want to do all I can, including testing of scraped skin tissue, blood and whatever else is available. I want to test for any possible venereal disease known. Do you have any idea what my problem might be or if I do have some strange chronic yeast infection, how can I recover?