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im done im putting it in God's hand..please read

Posted In: Medical Errors 15 Replies
  • Posted By: pooh38635
  • June 20, 2008
  • 07:37 PM

hi about two months ago i doctor told me that i might have herpes...i was shocked and it really didnt register at first....i became depressed and i didnt want have any type of interaction with really anyone. my friends were there for me and constantly we prayed..i finally told my partner and he went and got tested but a month went by and we didnt talk so i didnt know if he was ignoring me or what...my sister thought it was a good idea for me to come stay with her to clear my mind so i took dat over..i felt better for a little while but i still cried frequently...my mom wanted me to get more medicine since i was going outta of town and i probably would be gone the whole summer.. everyone knows this type of medicine has to be called in my your doctor..so i tried calling her and they said she no longer worked there and was MIA..i thought this was strange so i had no way of getting any medicine i would have to see another doctor and be examed all over again..i really didnt wanna do that...i finally heard from my partner and we talk as if we never stopped talking. i brought it up and thats when he told me he got tested twice for everything and he came back negative this took me by surprise since mine came back positive....

i think it was God because alot of strange things happen beside the doctor disappearing and no one knowing where she was. first they didnt call me with my results and when i called them the nurse said everything was normal.i had to ask several times about the test then she said i was positive for hsv1.. many people have told me that comes from oral sex and i have never had that..i had just recently lost my virginity basically i was curious.. that wasnt my first time breaking out down there i had been breaking out for years right before my period.. i would tell my mom but she would do nothing...i would but grease on it or antibiotics and t would go away sometimes i would do nothing about it..i would get pains or bruises down there and i just kind of use it as a sign telling me when m period was coming... i have not tooken any more of that medicine since april and im fine no problems at all...everyone tells me that im ok and i would never really take them seriously because of the bug in my ear telling me i had it...my friend told me God puts people and things in your way to get you back on the right track or to guide you and i really believe that she was right....

I AM GENITAL HERPES FREE AND IM HAPPY TO SAY IT BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN GOOD AND I KNOW WHAT HE CAN DO..GOD TAKES YOU THROUGH ***l TO GET YOU TO HEAVEN!!!! GOD GIVES YOU THINGS SO THAT YOU KNOW HE IS THERE....HE TAKES THEM AWAY SO YOU WONT FORGET THAT HE"S HERE.. GOD HAS GIVEN ME A CLEAN SLATE!!!!:):)

if it wasnt for God, my family and friends i wouldnt have been able to get through this...so have faith and put your sickness,anger,frustration, pain, and hurt into his hand because he can and will bring you through....

I have decide to become celibate for awhile until i get into a serious relationship where sex is not a big deal..love is the answer.:):)

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  • May I be so bold to suggest that you go to another doctor and ask for a blood test for the herpes 1 test and then the herpes 2 test? Whenever you get blood work for the rest of your life, you need to go back in and demand a copy of your paper work. Doctor's office staff is not so efficient in reporting results. There are many false negative results that come through. It is possible that your former boyfriend is negative, but you have a moral obligation to inform all of your partners that you have genital herpes, even if it is herpes1. Since you have had it since you were young, you caught it innocently. It is known to break out when you have your period. Lysine around that time helps. Being celibate helps to redirect your life's path. You may want to join a support group or dating group like:www.antopia.com God told me to give you this message.
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies Flag this Response
  • i did not have hsv1 when i was young...i have only had two sexual partners and i have only had sex five times...im going back and i kno my test gonna come back negative because i have faith and i believe in God...then im putttin all this behind me for good.....:)
    pooh38635 15 Replies Flag this Response
  • im sorry to be an **s, but believing in god does not make you immune to herpes. you are a human. you can get STD's just like the rest of us
    Unreal 19 Replies Flag this Response
  • im sorry to be an **s, but believing in god does not make you immune to herpes. you are a human. you can get STD's just like the rest of us Amen;). DOM
    acuann 3080 Replies Flag this Response
  • here here.....
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies Flag this Response
  • serious monsterlove i appreciate your advice i really do but your not getting it you trying to tell me i have had hsv1 since i was young and i just became sexually active thid year and then you said i have it in my mouth and i aint never did anything oral...i really appreciate your concern cause there are people who are all alone and have no one there for them but when you do lsten to their story before you judge...and maybe your not a believer in God but dont down me because i beliebve in him dont knock my religion because i show wouldnt make any negative remarks about the religion you believe in.. so thanks again..."life hits hard But God blocks all the punches":)
    pooh38635 15 Replies Flag this Response
  • Amen;). DOMi never said that things like this can not happen to me..i never once said that and i never will...things like this only make you stonger as a person..."God takes you through ***l to get you to HEAVEN" "This Earth is not our home thats something we all must remember":)thank you:)
    pooh38635 15 Replies Flag this Response
  • she said i was positive for hsv1.. that wasnt my first time breaking out down there i had been breaking out for years right before my period.. i would tell my mom but she would do nothing...i would but grease on it or antibiotics and t would go away sometimes i would do nothing about it..i would get pains or bruises down there and i just kind of use it as a sign telling me when m period was coming...or to guide you and i really believe that she was right....:):) It all comes from you, dolly...You said you tested positive and have had these symptoms since you were a teen. If you have had it since a teen, I did say you got it innocently and did not even infir that you had teen sex. It also does not matter that you recently began to have sex. You could have just been at the receiving end the first time you engaged in sex. I think you need to make a doctors appointment and discuss it all with your doctor...exactly what it is that you have. She can run the tests again to confirm for your peace of mind. I think you are young and naive and not educated enough on the topic. This is not a religious debate; you just need an education and your facts correct.
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies Flag this Response
  • It all comes from you, dolly...You said you tested positive and have had these symptoms since you were a teen. If you have had it since a teen, I did say you got it innocently and did not even infir that you had teen sex. It also does not matter that you recently began to have sex. You could have just been at the receiving end the first time you engaged in sex. I think you need to make a doctors appointment and discuss it all with your doctor...exactly what it is that you have. She can run the tests again to confirm for your peace of mind. I think you are young and naive and not educated enough on the topic. This is not a religious debate; you just need an education and your facts correct.im sorry if im coming off the wrong way or rubbing you the wrong way but i just wanna be clear...i just want to understand how i could have had it all those years with no sexually contact..i just recently lost my virginity is what i want everyone to understand i have never engage in orally cause i really dont see a reason for that i came to this board for understanding not to pick fights thats the last thing i want to do...i just wat somebody to listen and give me answers to what this can be since the doctor only wants to believe what she wants....
    pooh38635 15 Replies Flag this Response
  • The doctor doesn't have to "believe" anything if she has run the proper blood work. She can present physical proof. You confuse us all because you said you had lab work. Go back to her or go to a different doctor who will run the labs and discuss them with you. Get copies for your own records. If you have never let a boy even touch you at all until this year, then I don't know what to tell you--you could have gotten it the first time you had sex.
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies Flag this Response
  • Actually what many people do not know is that you can get the herpes virus many ways not just through sexual contact. You may have been born with it. It is not something to be ashamed of since 1 in 3 or 1 in 4 (depending on which study you believe) have it. You can have hsv1 and have outbreaks in your genital area even though it is described as "oral herpes". The important part is that you know for your own health management. As someone else said taking Lysine can help as will eating lots of broccoli. Either way- please see another doctor and have the test repeated.
    dizzy lizzie 192 Replies Flag this Response
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  • Actually what many people do not know is that you can get the herpes virus many ways not just through sexual contact. You may have been born with it. It is not something to be ashamed of since 1 in 3 or 1 in 4 (depending on which study you believe) have it. You can have hsv1 and have outbreaks in your genital area even though it is described as "oral herpes". The important part is that you know for your own health management. As someone else said taking Lysine can help as will eating lots of broccoli. Either way- please see another doctor and have the test repeated.Exactly. My little brother had chin herpes when he was 15. I don't know the actual name but he had a rash all along his mouth that the doc said was a form of herpes. He was not sexually active (no, I'm not naive, I know because I found out when he became sexually active later...) But chicken pox is also a strain of herpes. I had that when I was 5 and I wasn't sexually active you can bet your boots.Having and STD isn't always tied to sex. You can get AIDS without having sex. If someone infected bleeds on you your in trouble. And how many sexual partners did your two sexual partners have? If they each had 2 other than you, it means you've slept with 6 people, any one of which could have had herpes. And it doesn't matter if you've only had sex 5 times. It only takes once to catch something.Lets put your options this way.You can go get retested by a different doctor and A) find out you really are herpes free and live a happy lifeB) find out you aren't herpes free and get treated and live a happy lifeor you can presume you don't have herpes and A) maybe not have herpes and live a happy lifeB) GIVE IT TO SOMEONE ELSE BECAUSE YOU WOULDN'T GET TESTED!!! And then they'd pass it on because they can't have gotten herpes because they only slept with you. So, which would rather?
    chaosconnect 15 Replies Flag this Response
  • c) have herpes and live a happy life but inform your partners...
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies Flag this Response
  • im sorry if im coming off the wrong way or rubbing you the wrong way but i just wanna be clear...i just want to understand how i could have had it all those years with no sexually contact..i just recently lost my virginity is what i want everyone to understand i have never engage in orally cause i really dont see a reason for that i came to this board for understanding not to pick fights thats the last thing i want to do...i just wat somebody to listen and give me answers to what this can be since the doctor only wants to believe what she wants....People are always going to try to bring you down. The thing is, dont let them. My little sister (not biologically) was diagnosed with oral herpes as a child (around 6). When she gets breakouts its typically just blister like bumps on her lips and nothing more. It can be inherited, her mother had it as well. People dont have to be bad people to have herpes, its not a big deal as long as you take preventitve messures. So dont stress, some people have nothing better to do =)
    Anonymous 42789 Replies Flag this Response
  • hi about two months ago i doctor told me that i might have herpes...i was shocked and it really didnt register at first....i became depressed and i didnt want have any type of interaction with really anyone. my friends were there for me and constantly we prayed..i finally told my partner and he went and got tested but a month went by and we didnt talk so i didnt know if he was ignoring me or what...my sister thought it was a good idea for me to come stay with her to clear my mind so i took dat over..i felt better for a little while but i still cried frequently...my mom wanted me to get more medicine since i was going outta of town and i probably would be gone the whole summer.. everyone knows this type of medicine has to be called in my your doctor..so i tried calling her and they said she no longer worked there and was MIA..i thought this was strange so i had no way of getting any medicine i would have to see another doctor and be examed all over again..i really didnt wanna do that...i finally heard from my partner and we talk as if we never stopped talking. i brought it up and thats when he told me he got tested twice for everything and he came back negative this took me by surprise since mine came back positive....i think it was God because alot of strange things happen beside the doctor disappearing and no one knowing where she was. first they didnt call me with my results and when i called them the nurse said everything was normal.i had to ask several times about the test then she said i was positive for hsv1.. many people have told me that comes from oral sex and i have never had that..i had just recently lost my virginity basically i was curious.. that wasnt my first time breaking out down there i had been breaking out for years right before my period.. i would tell my mom but she would do nothing...i would but grease on it or antibiotics and t would go away sometimes i would do nothing about it..i would get pains or bruises down there and i just kind of use it as a sign telling me when m period was coming... i have not tooken any more of that medicine since april and im fine no problems at all...everyone tells me that im ok and i would never really take them seriously because of the bug in my ear telling me i had it...my friend told me God puts people and things in your way to get you back on the right track or to guide you and i really believe that she was right....I AM GENITAL HERPES FREE AND IM HAPPY TO SAY IT BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN GOOD AND I KNOW WHAT HE CAN DO..GOD TAKES YOU THROUGH ***l TO GET YOU TO HEAVEN!!!! GOD GIVES YOU THINGS SO THAT YOU KNOW HE IS THERE....HE TAKES THEM AWAY SO YOU WONT FORGET THAT HE"S HERE.. GOD HAS GIVEN ME A CLEAN SLATE!!!!:):)if it wasnt for God, my family and friends i wouldnt have been able to get through this...so have faith and put your sickness,anger,frustration, pain, and hurt into his hand because he can and will bring you through....I have decide to become celibate for awhile until i get into a serious relationship where sex is not a big deal..love is the answer.:):)Maybe it is not just herpes. Have you been tested for HLA-B27? Could be Reactive Arthritis. http://www.RhNegativeRegistry.com
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