Hi, I've been looking through the internet for help with a problem I'm having, and this seemed like a good place.
My girlfriend and I recently had sex for our first times (we were both virgins). In the past (with other girlfriends and with this one) I get hard while making out or anything like that, but I normally am not that turned on by handjobs or *******s (keep in mind, these are virgin-level-experience of girls and I doubt they were very good, but still, shouldn't there be somethign!?) Actually I'm more aroused from just making out but once my penis is actually taken out, I'm just not any more... And now this is causing problems with having sex. I need to know how to overcome this problem. I'm not really uncomfortable with the girl, which is why I wasn't sure if this is just the standard first-time-worries or not. Oh, also, here's something which may or may not be relevant: I'm not really comfortable taking a piss in a urinal when other people are there. I'm not sure how to fix this. Can somebody at least point me in the right direction??? Thanks a lot in advance!