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Sexually Underdeveloped?

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  • Posted By: Confused4Now
  • September 19, 2009
  • 05:21 AM

Adult male
Very late bloomer.
Poor growth spurt during puberty.
Tiny skeletal frame.
5'9", 170 range now.
Genitals never really grew. Voice changed, started growing facial hair, pubic hair.

Genitals:
2" flacid, extremely skinny; 3 1/2" erect, again, very thin and never totally hard.

Have been with two girls, and the first was somewhat sexually compatible, but we could only do 1 or 2 positions because of my size.

Second girlfriend was total incompatability, felt embarrased after sex, almost no friction/stimulation, and I was the problem.

Passive by nature, emotionally wired like a female, dependent personality.
TOTALLY heterosexual, but don't feel strong atractions to females.

Testosterone levels were fine, but I know that 90-95% of that is made in the testes.

Am I missing something?
Are there some hormones I didn't get?

Its very important to me to be masculine, but I'm not. My voice is deep, but I have emotions and a passive persona that I cannot stand!

I'm going to see the endocrinoligist about Depression/Anxiety/Blood work, sometime between now and Christmas.

Are there any suggestions as to what could be the cause?

Thanks!

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  • perhaps a good preventative doctor could run an extensive battery of glandular/endocrine/hormone tests and provide recommendations. I know of one in Santa Barbara. I don't think it would increase your size. The greatest love of my life had a penis smaller than you--half your size==but my love was so huge. You need to find a woman like me who loves you for who and what you are, regardless of what happens in bed. You need to get really good at giving oral sex, too...that will help you a lot...my friend became a world famous artist, so don't be so ******n yourself and go down the depression route your life...live full of zest and you will find satisfaction..
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies
    • September 19, 2009
    • 06:01 AM
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  • perhaps a good preventative doctor could run an extensive battery of glandular/endocrine/hormone tests and provide recommendations. I know of one in Santa Barbara. I don't think it would increase your size. The greatest love of my life had a penis smaller than you--half your size==but my love was so huge. You need to find a woman like me who loves you for who and what you are, regardless of what happens in bed. You need to get really good at giving oral sex, too...that will help you a lot...my friend became a world famous artist, so don't be so ******n yourself and go down the depression route your life...live full of zest and you will find satisfaction.. Thank you for responding! I will be seeing an endocrinologist, so hopefully there'll be some answers. I am quite far from Santa Barbara, although it is very thoughtful of you to offer the referral. I'll be honest, my concern now is less about my ability to satsify a woman, although if I get married, I certainly want to please her in every way; but would agree with you with enough love, those other issues fade to black. I've got so many other things that are starting to give way both psychologically and physically, I'm hoping the lack of size will hellp substantiate the evidence for a hormonal/genetic flaw. I'm very grateful for your time!
    Confused4Now 3 Replies
    • September 20, 2009
    • 01:31 AM
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  • this lists all the tests you should get: http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001169.htm http://www.healthline.com/galecontent/genitalia-ambiguous?print=true http://www.healthline.com/adamcontent/klinefelter-syndrome Karyotyping Semen count Serum estradiol levels (a type of estrogen) Serum follicle stimulating hormone Serum luteinizing hormone Serum testosterone could be a genetic thing..maybe an abdominal ultrasound to see what's inside????
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies
    • September 20, 2009
    • 07:04 AM
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  • How old are you?
    kermworm 81 Replies
    • October 12, 2009
    • 09:43 PM
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