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sensitive penis

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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • July 1, 2011
  • 05:51 PM

Hey everyone,
I'm 23 and gay and just recently started experimenting with sexual activity, though I'm an experienced masturbater from way back lol.
So far all I've done is some touching and stuff, but every time a guy touches me or tries to give me oral sex my penis is so sensitive that it hurts to be touched. I'm not circumsized and have always had a sensitive glans, though I've gotten to the point where I can touch the glans when it's flaccid and it just feels mildly unpleasant. But it definitely feels more unpleasant to have my glans touched when I'm aroused, and it's really put a damper on sex for me. I may have been maturbating "wrong" all my life...I've noticed from ***n that guys tend to pull down on the penis when masturbating, and I've always stroked in an upward motion. I'm really scared that I'm sexually dysfunctional, especially because I've started so late and haven't been masturbating in the normal way. Is there any way I can fix this? I've had highly enjoyable experiences while masturbating; should I "teach" the guy I'm with to pull upward on my penis instead of pulling down or when giving oral sex to pull up on the penis instead of moving his mouth in a downward motion? Is there anything unhealthy about not doing it the "conventional" way? I didn't anticipate this kind of pain, I never had any conversations with anyone about masturbation technique so I just assumed the upward stroke was normal, haha. I haven't even tried anal sex yet, so I don't know how that would work with this problem.

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