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Lost erection...help me find it.

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  • Posted By: Vexanthrope
  • July 22, 2008
  • 00:14 AM

I'm a 19 year old male with average sexual experience, never had any problems before, and recently with my newest girlfriend things have just been going wrong...Ive been losing erections for no reason while im with her, only during penetration though. Ive had no problems attaining one at all, or keeping one during foreplay or anything like that, only during penetration and she takes it as a "sign" that we shouldnt do anything, but im thinking shes thinking im losing it because im not feeling her or not into her or something like that, im afraid what has become my problem is starting to affect her negatively and its really startin to suck, so im asking for help in what has helped you maintain your erections? Ive read a few topics today, a few of you have shared similar experiences with this and many of you have said things that i have taken in mind such as not thinking about losing it, and so on. But prior to this event of me losing my erections, we had had sex a few times and a condom has fallen off, she took this as a "sign" that we shouldnt do anything as well. A few days ago, we were fooling around in the pool for like an hour, and i was able to penetrate her and have a fully blown session until ejaculation, and the night of that we were gona mess around again, and that is when i lost my erection and she was like totally turned off by it. Now obviously my reasoning is that if i wasnt into her i wouldnt have been able to maintain an erection in the pool because ive heard a few times that "pool sex doesnt work" and so on, but for us it worked just fine...Now im afraid this will happen again because of the pressure to deliver now, and the chance of failure and her disappointment. Tell me what you think! Thanks for your time.

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  • I'm a 19 year old male with average sexual experience, never had any problems before, and recently with my newest girlfriend things have just been going wrong...Ive been losing erections for no reason while im with her, only during penetration though. Ive had no problems attaining one at all, or keeping one during foreplay or anything like that, only during penetration and she takes it as a "sign" that we shouldnt do anything, but im thinking shes thinking im losing it because im not feeling her or not into her or something like that, im afraid what has become my problem is starting to affect her negatively and its really startin to suck, so im asking for help in what has helped you maintain your erections? Ive read a few topics today, a few of you have shared similar experiences with this and many of you have said things that i have taken in mind such as not thinking about losing it, and so on. But prior to this event of me losing my erections, we had had sex a few times and a condom has fallen off, she took this as a "sign" that we shouldnt do anything as well. A few days ago, we were fooling around in the pool for like an hour, and i was able to penetrate her and have a fully blown session until ejaculation, and the night of that we were gona mess around again, and that is when i lost my erection and she was like totally turned off by it. Now obviously my reasoning is that if i wasnt into her i wouldnt have been able to maintain an erection in the pool because ive heard a few times that "pool sex doesnt work" and so on, but for us it worked just fine...Now im afraid this will happen again because of the pressure to deliver now, and the chance of failure and her disappointment. Tell me what you think! Thanks for your time. Do you smoke pot by chance?DOM
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  • I have not smoked pot in over a year so i doubt that has anything to do with it, im in overall good physical shape, good blood flow to my knowledge, work out 5-6 times weekly and play sports regularly to boot. I have absolutely no clue why this ****s happenin!
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